If you need an intro to the foundational ideas in psychoanalysis, its hard to beat Jonathan Shedler's article: open.substack.com/pub/jonath…
"Training programs in the psychoanalytic therapies tend to stress curiosity and the attitude of not knowing as central to the therapeutic project." - Fine-Thomas and McWilliams
"A psychodynamic perspective suggest that most of us are consciously confused and unconsciously controlled. Conscious processing may be going on while automatic unconscious processes have already been at work to make a decision." - Glen Gabbard
I'm getting more fake inquiries asking for therapy in which the scammer wants me to have a zoom call prior to the session. The scam is that the person wants me to accept a malicious zoom link in hopes they can get access to my computer. It's sad and annoying.
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“A strikingly cyclical effort to sanitize speech has contributed to widespread misunderstanding of psychoanalytic tradition.
Over time, whatever the original intentions of those people who coined any specific psychological term, labels for certain conditions ineluctably come to have a negative connotation.
Language that was invented to be simply descriptive—in fact, invented to replace previous value-laden words—develops an evaluative cast and is applied, especially by lay people, in ways that pathologize.
Certain topics seem inherently unsettling to human beings, and however carefully we try to talk about them in nonjudgmental language, the words we use to do so attain a pejorative tone over the years.
Today's ‘antisocial personality,’ as a case in point, was in 1835 termed ‘moral insanity.’ Later it became ‘psychopathy,’ then ‘sociopathy.’
Each change was intended to give a descriptive, noncensorious label to a disturbing phenomenon. Yet the power of that phenomenon to disturb eventually contaminated each word that was invented to keep the concept out of the realm of moralization.
Any phenomenon that tends to trouble people, for whatever reason, seems to instigate this futile chasing after nonstigmatizing language.
One outcome of this doomed project to sanitize language is that the older a particular psychological tradition is, the more negative, judgmental, and quaint its terminology sounds.
The swift consumption, distortion, and prejudicial application of psychoanalytic terms, within the mental health professions and outside them, have been a bane of the psychodynamic tradition.”
—Nancy McWilliams
One notable thing to me about the BPD discourse I’ve been seeing here over the last couple of days, vast majority of it from non-clinicians, there is just no tiptoeing around BPD as a diagnosis, no the-diagnosis-that-must-not-be-named vibes; it is refreshing in its own way, a collective step away from toxic denial that has often characterized activism around this. I don’t know what the future holds for BPD as a diagnosis; quite possibly the terminology will look different in 2 decades, but the experiential and behavioral patterns that are indexed by BPD need clear-eyed recognition, and that need will not change.
Great essay by Gnaulati about psychotherapy drop out rates. Sometimes getting back to basics is what is needed. madinamerica.com/2026/10/the…
"The capacity for insight is a necessary but not sufficient condition for change." - Fine-Thomas and McWilliams
"The capacity for reflection on one’s own and others’ minds can be a profound help in getting through life. It is also true, however, that we can know quite a lot about ourselves and still struggle to make better choices." Fine-Thomas and McWilliams
"As much as we want to be present and to feel our client's pain, we also naturally fear that same experience." - Karen Maroda
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"Human beings are naturally curious about their motives, needs, feelings, and capacities. Even though insight is not always necessary to achieve positive change, self-knowledge has long been associated with mental health." - Fine-Thomas and McWilliams
Effective therapy takes time. How long? Jonathan Shedler and Enrico Gnaulati spell it out in this essay. psychotherapynetworker.org/a…
"To encourage patients toward affect regulation, psychoanalytic clinicians try to demonstrate affect tolerance and modulation in the therapeutic relationship. With time, this capacity, if exemplified consistently, can become internalized." Fine-Thomas and McWilliams
Great discussion of depressive personality style with Jonathan Shedler. By the way, many therapists have this style of personality. youtu.be/J2TiCHMsOls?si=Bs9W…
"The capacity to manage feelings starts in infancy. A primary task of parenting is to help children name their feelings, understand what they mean, and manage them, and also to teach them something about how their feelings may affect others." - Fine-Thoma and McWilliams
"Therapists need to have some idea of how to accompany their clients on their journey toward transformation." - Karen Maroda
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Healthy self-esteem is about balance, confidence in our abilities, and compassion toward ourselves when we face challenges.
A valuable reminder that personal growth starts with understanding and accepting ourselves. 👏
"Self-esteem that can be considered “healthy” allows for ordinary confidence, pride in one’s achievements, and humility and self-compassion about one’s limitations." - Fine-Thomas and McWilliams
If you're interested in understanding the research for psychoanalysis, start with the seminal 2010 paper by Jonathan Shedler. jonathanshedler.com/PDFs/She…




















