Peter Steele (PBUH) spoke on this.

There’s an intensely conservative side to me, but I’m probably a bohemian. There’s an artistic element in me. I don’t care for bourgeois respectability. It doesn’t bother me. That’s where the leaders of the extreme Right often come from. They actually come from the arts.

Okay imagine your guy friend revealing after years that hes actually gay and in love with you. Does that change the dynamic of your friendship? Do you feel like the camaraderie was based on a lie and this sexual attraction changes the friendship? Does it make it weird? Do you normally hang out with guys who want to fuck you? Does every future interaction with him change from ‘bro’ coded to ‘suitor’ coded? I think the betrayal and disgust reaction isnt really conveyed by if you think of your girl friend revealing this secret crush, its more similar to the reaction youd feel if your guy friend revealed it after years of never mentioning it and now youre reviewing your entire friendship together under the lens that he was only there to get in your butt. Also, as a girl, there’s a difference between guy friend who would probably not turn you down if you made a move and guy friend who is only orbiting you bc he secretly longs for more.

“I make art!” The art in question:

this is who is telling you they are better than you

what the actual fuck