Marvins♛ retweeted
Women, btw, I don see so many posts about this today– the whole idea that a man's money is automatically your money, while you don't have to make any effort to build something for yourself, is becoming an entitled mindset 😭
Girl, have your own money! Make money, build yourself and learn to cater for your needs. Don't develop the mindset that because you're a woman, you should sit comfortably in one place and expect a man to pay every single bill.
Yes, a man has a responsibility to provide, and there's absolutely nothing wrong with enjoying a man who takes care of you.
If he gives you money, beautiful!, if be doesn't, perfect too. Him giving you should be an addition to what you already have, not the only thing you can fall back on.
The reality is that you cannot predict how life will turn out. A man can change, circumstances can change, and sometimes the same people who claim they want to take care of you may look down on you when you have nothing of your own.
Don't put yourself in a position where you have to beg for every little thing or tolerate disrespect because you depend entirely on someone's pocket.
Enjoy a man's provision, but don't make it your entire financial plan.
Have something of your own too.
Women are not forbidden to make money!
