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I'm nonbinary. Currently on sabbatical after 10 years in tech. πŸ’›πŸ€πŸ’œπŸ–€ They/them

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hi pocket internet friens, i'm moss and i have delightful personal gender news i'm nonbinary i use they/them pronouns i've written a very nerdy coming out essay that i invite y'all to read moss.geek.nz/writing/2021/im… πŸ’›πŸ€πŸ’œπŸ–€
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I've had many conversations this week in which it's been important to gently deflect well wishers from "I hope you and yours have a restful weekend to recover" to "Recovery isn't a goal in my family. We're wishing for stability and agency"
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A shoutout to @NataliaHodgins who's work I just learnt existed, and quote tweeted starting this thread. Starting a conversation on main about disability; sailing that bow across the waves; all I can say is I would not have had the safety to say my piece on main without seeing it
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Also, if the themes of this thread resonate with you; Especially the sailing metaphors and carving across the grain of an inhospitable world in aid of yourself and others, You will enjoy & find resonance in Victoria Goddard's "The Hands of the Emperor" victoriagoddard.ca/collectio…
I reactivated my Netflix briefly so I could stream Nanette by Hannah Gadsby while reading her book β€œten steps to nanette” (strong recommend, tho take care in reading) So this thread was super useful to not get autoplayed garbage while I’m on my way to the dwindling queer content
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The thing that really bakes my noodle along these lines is, As an asthmatic person, I live my life today at sort of Alert Level 3 and a halfish - I've designed my 2022 so I can stay home. This was being prudent, and "stay home, save lives" all the way up to December 2021.
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We went from "alone together" to "If it makes you feel more comfortable, you can ask them to wear a face mask" as official guidance in a span of months. And apparently having feelings about that is being excessively anxious? I'd scream but I need the lung capacity.
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Shout out to all the people in my life who keep me connected while I stay home and stay safe, And a huge wtf is wrong with you to the folk who harassed me this week because I was wearing a mask when I was walking to the pharmacy to pick up the medication that helps me breathe.
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Love having to send a message to my parents on "You know how I told you @radionz was a trusted source on transgender issues? Especially rnz.co.nz/programmes/let-s-b…. Yeah, don't listen to the interview they put on air this morning" What. the. fuck. RNZ.
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"This next interview will offend some people". This was the wrong warning. The warning is, this next interview will shatter any trust you have that @radionz is a place for transgender inclusive discussion.
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The only silver lining I can see, and the repair work I have done on, no, we can't trust that interview is it gave more opportunity to share "yeah, transgender exclusion masquerades as feminism" with my parents. Referencing theguardian.com/us-news/comm… contingentmagazine.org/2019/…
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