The mother of your kid/kids should NOT have to call you giving you day-by-day updates about YOUR OWN KIDS. Wtf type of father gotta be kept informed about children he helped create? If she gotta call you to tell you what’s going on in their lives, you’re already failing as a father. A real dad don’t need reminders, updates, or a damn invitation to be involved in his kids’ lives. YOU KNOW YOU GOT KIDS, SO ACT LIKE IT! 💯