When girls want to sleep w/ you itās beyond noticeable. If you have to chase, then itās not what she initially wanted, but a required taste.
Youāre either physically attractive, emotionally stable, or financially well off.
Stay in touch w/ reality, no matter how hard it gets, because whatever fantasy or āescapeā you assume will save you, will later eventually be your demise.
Woman will be like āBut sheās not even prettier than meā, perhaps not, & thatās far from the point, because sheās a better person & who I actually envision a future with.
But really I can care less about any of that. If sheās average looking, has a normal job, & comes from humble beginnings thatās fine.
Seeking a wife, whom Iād eventually raise a family with. Someone who can make a house a home, loves to adventure, & understands life.
Some ppl date for status & opportunity; making it a point to date the most attractive, successful, or well connected person. To each is own, but also comes w/ a price, better fit the bill.
Dating in the US isnāt for the weak, honestly, it needs a hard reset.
If youāve dated someone not from here, then probably realized we have such a lack of passion for life, lack personal peace, let our egos override, & allowed money to dictate overall quality of life.
Ppl get into a lot of bullsh*t because they donāt know when to go home, have too many ppl around, & focused on matters of real importance.
Life is hard enough as it is, so itās easier sticking to one loving partner, few good friends, & avoiding any sign of trouble like a plague.
Sometimes youāll get overlooked from not doing the most, or by being genuine & authentic, please donāt take it as a sign to join the circus.
Simply take note, demand whatās deserved, & let āem live in their preferred world of delusion.
Itās ironic how the literal āCool pplā, barely have friends, yet constantly inspire, wether credited or not.
Iām not what I look like, but I am what I look like at the same time.
I donāt even know how to explain this sh*t.
But if youāve embraced duality, then you understand.
Being āRealā for the sake of is a f*cking myth, nobody cares, & youāll learn that the hard way.
From friends, girlfriends, to family, Iāve learned itās literally more lucrative & better to be real w/ yourself, & just pay attention to the bullsh*t ppl to tell themselves.
Not every connection is meant to be long term, most will be short lived, but those moments can be a staple in time, to help heal or positively pivot your life in direction.
Obviously, choose who you spend time w/ wisely, but don't create an impossible pedestal either.
Not every connection is meant to be long term, most will be short lived, but those moments can be a staple in time, to help heal or positively pivot your life in a direction.
Obviously, choose who you spend time w/ wisely, but donāt create an impossible pedestal either.
Most ppl we come across arenāt long term relationship worthy; humans just crave passion, companionship, & overall sex which is okay, but donāt be naive.
Too many of us expect more out ppl than what they can actually offer.
Sometimes a good time is just a good time, & we fool ourselves into believing more, let it be & enjoy the moment, or stay home.
Probably the first & last time Iāll say this publicly, but if your perception of reality solely stems from a government institution or friends/family who donāt have the sort of peaceful & prosperous life you desire, then youāre a naĆÆve puppet.
Do better or pay the price.
Itās about a lifestyle, at least for me; which blends everything from fashion, music, sex, architecture, history, science, etc.
Lived long enough to know you donāt have to be one thing, a lot of WHAT/HOW weāre taught depletes the human spirit, & dying for a just cause is noble.
God, purpose, intention; as long as we stay mindful of these things, itās almost impossible to lose sight of yourself & whatās important.
