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Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
There is no passage in the Christian Bible that says a marriage must take place in a church to be legally valid, recognised by God, or considered a legitimate marriage.
In fact, the Bible does not establish a church wedding as a prerequisite for marriage.
What she doesn’t even know is that court marriage is statutory. It makes the marriage legal.
Traditional rites is the agreement between both families to giving consent for both parties to be husband and wife. It is legally recognized in Nigeria.
Church neither gives consent nor is the certificate issued legally binding anywhere.
Religion keeps fingering the brains of the gullible and the impressionable.
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
"Marry a kind man"
You wey be witch. Have you ever been kind since dem born you?
When it comes to these matter, I will always say pay yourself first.
WGen you are done with bills and savings, the remaining give to family members and everyone will be alright.
Supporting your family is important, but how do you establish financial boundaries without abandoning your responsibilities?
You earn ₦300,000 monthly.
You send ₦50,000 to your parents, ₦30,000 to your sibling and another ₦20,000 to a relative in need.
That’s ₦100,000 gone before attending to your own financial obligations.
These are people you love, and their needs may be genuine.
But you also have bills to pay, savings to build and a financial future to secure.
At what point does supporting your family begin to compromise your own financial stability?
How do you draw the line without feeling guilty?
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Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
Supporting your family is important, but how do you establish financial boundaries without abandoning your responsibilities?
You earn ₦300,000 monthly.
You send ₦50,000 to your parents, ₦30,000 to your sibling and another ₦20,000 to a relative in need.
That’s ₦100,000 gone before attending to your own financial obligations.
These are people you love, and their needs may be genuine.
But you also have bills to pay, savings to build and a financial future to secure.
At what point does supporting your family begin to compromise your own financial stability?
How do you draw the line without feeling guilty?
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
Lesson of the week !!!!!!
Pls ask yourself .
If my income stopped today, what have I built with all the money I’ve earned.
It’s Time to reflect .
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
People are really living like animals in this country.
Inside this El-Nino, the least anyone can really ask for is stable electricity. In 2026!!!
Yet, na 15mins dem dey give us light here daily - for the past week, and God help you if you are dependent on this grid or you don’t have 100k to be spending on fuel weekly. Still, there is ongoing campaign for reelection!
From top to bottom, Presidency to Councilor, a pathologically useless lot - and the sad part is that most Nigerians genuinely don’t even know they deserve better.
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
The other day, I heard of a man who died in a road traffic accident while driving on the highway.
By your logic, I suppose driving is a death sentence.
Pregnancy is not a death sentence Na you just wan die.
Said by a bloody FOOL called @Wizarab10 , whose brain is an apology from the condom factory,
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
I have a problem.
And my problem is having only one source of income for twenty expenses.
God epp me na die I dey
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
This month alone,
I’ve bought a fake pack of Dettol bathing soap. The pack contains six pieces.
I have also bought a fake Nivea Men Deep Extreme Roll On.
On both products, you wouldn’t know they’re fake until you actually used them.
I didn’t use the local market. I bought both products at the Mall.
There is a thriving market of fake products making it to our stores, and homes.
We are in a big mess.
Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
Husband and wife are in the UK!!!
Both of them are earning 2k each month!!! Yet, the husband made the rule that rent, electricity and feeding is his duty, while the wife pays council tax and electricity bills.
And then, because rent, feeding and electricity swallows up 80% of his income every month, he has to borrow money from his wife with promise to pay back with interest!!!
The “lucky” wife is already building a house in Ifo cos only about 20% of her income goes into running the home.
Husband who should combine each and every penny made in the family to make life easier for everyone and work towards a common goal is doing odogwu on top 2k each month and “that is the way women are wired”!!!
When I tell you Nigerian men are chronically dumb fools who lead women into destroying them I know what I am saying!!!!
Hands on chin,
A thousand thoughts, yet not a word.
For wisdom is not in moving fast,
But choosing the move that is built to last.
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Okorafor Ikechukwu retweeted
"Marriage is slavery and does not benefit women."
Yet, a man that dates you and refuses to propose, is wasting your time. A man that proposes and doesn't take you to the altar, is an evil time waster. You go to church praying for the same marriage that is slavery.
"Pregnancy is death sentence"
But if you marry and you don't have kids, we won't hear word. If you have the first one, you start pushing for the next one. You are sowing seed in church, praying to God and even spending money doing IVF for this death sentence.
Is God not wonderful.
