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My husband started visiting his mother every Sunday without me. I didn’t mind until my mother-in-law accidentally revealed what they had been discussing during those visits. I’m 38 and have been married to my husband, Andrew, for seven years. We’ve generally had a peaceful marriage, although I’ve never been particularly close to his mother. She’s not openly hostile, but she’s one of those people who always has an opinion about how her son should live his life. For the first five years of our marriage, Andrew and I usually visited her together on Sundays. Sometimes we took the children, had lunch and returned home in the evening. But about a year ago, he started going alone.

As a man, you shouldn’t hesitate to put your babe on a monthly salary. This will make her look beautiful and put together always for you. It’s easy to know a man that has taste with the woman he rolls with.

Hi Everyone, please I need your help. I’ve battled Keloid since I was 2 as a result of the first ear piercing which was done at birth and was done wrongly. My parents have gone through several options given to them and it keeps reoccurring. I’ve done several surgical removal that I can’t even keep count both in general hospitals and private hospitals and they always finish up with kenalog as usual, I did cryotherapy for 2years with a popular Bumps clinic and the pain from the procedure almost paralyzed the left part of my body as it became weaker and I couldn’t use it, still it resurfaced. Since 2015 I’ve been in and out of the hospital over this keloid, one general hospital suggested removing the whole ear which might cause another issue as it could still grow again. I’ve been going through excruciating pains, every single day of my life I’m in pains, I’ve been popping painkillers like who’s taking candy, I barely sleep at night Most days I’m awake till morning, once it’s night I get scared cos the pains becomes unbearable. Sometimes I take sleeping pills just to get through the night. I can’t go out, I can’t even show up for my business, my parents and siblings have had to give up their finances every single year because of me. Last year November, my sister single-handedly took care of the bills for the procedure I did. At some point the Keloid started to accumulate abscess, it becomes so much that I’ve had to go through drainage process, I did one last year as well. And all of these have made the keloid very aggressive and it grows faster by the day, the last removal procedure I did was in April of last year, the growth you’re seeing in frame 1 is just 1year and 7months growth which is unusually fast. Since I finished my service year I’ve been at home because I couldn’t work with this condition, I even had to let go of a few job opportunities I was recommended for with the hope of getting this done before I fully commit. A doctor I met recommended LASUTH earlier this year and since May I’ve been trying to get booked for surgery, initially I was booked for surgery but I wasn’t told everything it entailed, my first surgery date was September 11th and it was moved later on due to the strike. I was opportuned to secure a consultation again with the Burns and Plastic unit (BPSU) yesterday in LASUTH and the consultant put me through everything I needed for the keloid to not reoccur. He said I needed at least 2 Radiotherapy sessions of which one has to be done exactly 24hrs after the surgical removal and then another few weeks after. After which I have to undergo chemotherapy and then post op care which includes injections, drugs,silicone creams, and any other recommended care. The Radiotherapy is to be done in LUTH (I was given a reference letter for it) after making enquiries in LUTH, the estimate of one radiotherapy session was given at 2.5m, and I’ll be needing 2sessions which sums up to 5m. Then the surgery for the removal of the Keloid costs 1.2m and I’ve been able to come up with that. Then after the surgery I’m to undergo chemotherapy and post op care but I have not been told how much that would cost, so I am unsure of the entire cost of that but the estimation according to what I’ve researched is about 2m. LASUTH have given me November 19th for my next and last consultation before the removal and this simply means I have to come up with the money for everything before then. So in total what will be needed for the successful surgery and post op care is 8.2m of which I’ve already raised 1.2m and I’m left to source for 7m before the 19th of November. This was really really hard for me to do as I have never done this before but this is my last resort as I have exhausted all my options and I have spent more than 6months alone trying to get booked with LASUTH. Please help me get my life back together 🙏 Any amount will go a long way🙏 0427940035 Nancy Chidinma Wema Bank

For further context, this is the same fellow who was practically orgasmic over ICE killing Alex Pretti, an ICU nurse. If he were a member of the Nigerian security forces with that same attitude toward human life, I doubt he would think twice about using that power against people he disagrees with. I genuinely do not understand why some of you think his attendance at my wedding somehow places me under an obligation to defend him. 😂😂😂 No wonder people’s votes can so easily be bought with a sachet of Indomie. A simple social interaction with a politically exposed individual, and suddenly, in your eyes, he becomes a demigod who must never be questioned or criticized. For the umpteenth time, he is not my friend and never will be. Attending my wedding does not give anyone immunity from criticism, nor does it mean I endorse their politics, character, or conduct. Had I known the extent of his political extremism and the views he holds, I would never have invited him to my wedding in the first place. Some of you really need to learn the difference between social courtesy, friendship, and blind loyalty.

There's this man who has been asking for my hand in marriage for over three months. He lives in the UK, drives a good car and owns a beautiful house here in Nigeria. I've never asked him for a dime. One day, I was at the salon getting my nails done when he called. I mentioned where I was, and he asked for my account number. He sent me ₦15k. That was when I knew how little he valued me. A man who claims he wants to marry me thought ₦15k was an impressive gesture? I was actually considering him because he's from my community, and I have political ambitions there. But that ₦15k changed everything. I blocked him and never spoke to him again. 😂

I think it’s important to clarify a few things, because this goes beyond the exchanges people are seeing here. One thing I absolutely detest is people who cannot tolerate the very treatment they routinely dish out to others. If you feel comfortable making sweeping judgments about people’s lives, choices, and motivations, you should be equally prepared to have your own views and conduct scrutinized. For context, I met Afam here on Twitter. We didn’t know each other personally. I casually invited him to my wedding, he enthusiastically accepted, and I genuinely appreciated his presence. However, attending my wedding does not mean we suddenly became close friends, nor does it create an obligation for our opinions to align. We’ve had serious disagreements outside this particular exchange, and I’ve long been aware that our political perspectives and values differ significantly. That, in itself, has never been my problem. What I find particularly disturbing is the habit of talking down to fellow Nigerians and reducing their political preferences to nothing more than a desperate quest for American visas. This is especially ironic coming from someone who has personally navigated the American immigration system and pursued opportunities to establish himself here. There is absolutely nothing wrong with seeking better opportunities abroad. What I object to is the double standard of treating one’s own immigration journey as legitimate while ridiculing others for supposedly wanting the same thing. My criticism is not about his right to hold different political opinions. It is about the condescension, sweeping generalizations, and apparent inability to accept the kind of scrutiny he freely directs at others. And for those attempting to turn a political disagreement into some story of personal betrayal, let me be clear: I appreciated his attendance at my wedding, but gratitude for a social gesture does not translate into lifelong political loyalty or immunity from criticism. We should be able to disagree politically without inventing motives for others or expecting personal associations to silence legitimate criticism. This might well be the last time I address this matter or engage in any further back and forth about it. I’ve made my position clear, and I have no interest in endlessly explaining the same point to people determined to misunderstand it.

Tell him to also stop talking shit about other people, their political supports because of visa especially when he literally did some sham marriage for visa

Hii hiiiii, people were kidnapped in igando area around lasu. Some teenagers and an elderly woman, they took turns raping a teenage girl and made the others watch. They made them hold cardboards and say untrue things about themselves, that they were gay. 1/2

An honour to have been part of the process of developing the Policy Manifesto of His Excellency, Governor Seyi Makinde. It has been both a privilege and a responsibility. Today, it was an honour to introduce it to Nigerians. Please give it a read on seyimakinde.org and let’s hear your thoughts on the 4 Pillars of the #ResetAgenda God Bless Nigeria.

URGENT PUBLIC APPEAL I never imagined having to make a post like this, but I desperately need your help. On October 31, while covering a wedding at Oriental Hotel, Lagos, my bag was stolen from inside the bride's room. The bag contained my MacBook Pro M1 and FOUR external hard drives holding approximately FIVE weddings yet to be delivered to my clients. These are not just files. They are people's once in a lifetime memories, months of hard work and my livelihood. Thankfully, we have obtained CCTV footage showing the individual entering, taking my bag and leaving the hotel. I'm offering a N500,000 REWARD for credible information leading to the identification of this individual and recovery of my belongings through the appropriate authorities. Please you can send a message or call this number for any update 09033892670 Please guys help me repost abeg, this is very important please. 🙏🏾

Please, I've got cookies in my shop that's close to expiration so I've put them for sale at 50% discount I've already lost two cartons to the same issue, there's been no sales If you're in port Harcourt I'd really appreciate if you patronise me They cost 3600 but now 1800 🙏

It’s been a journey. It was truly nice meeting you all on this platform. But this is goodbye. I wish you nothing but the best — in life, in love, and in all that concerns you. To those who have my WhatsApp or follow me elsewhere: you’re more than just an internet mutual. Thank you for the moments, the laughter, and the support. ❤ But lately, I say things and they’re taken out of context. I have been labeled “tribalistic”. I feel misunderstood… hatèd even. I’m tired. I want to leave so everyone can have the peace they desire — and maybe, so can I. Please don’t reach out. Respect my privacy. This decision hurts, but it’s one I have to make for my own peace of mind and mental health. Thank you for the likes, the comments, the reposts. Thank you… for seeing me. Goodbye.

It’s been a journey. It was truly nice meeting you all on this platform. But this is goodbye. I wish you nothing but the best — in life, in love, and in all that concerns you. To those who have my WhatsApp or follow me elsewhere: you’re more than just an internet mutual. Thank you for the moments, the laughter, and the support. ❤ But lately, I say things and they’re taken out of context. I have been labeled “tribalistic”. I feel misunderstood… hatèd even. I’m tired. I want to leave so everyone can have the peace they desire — and maybe, so can I. Please don’t reach out. Respect my privacy. This decision hurts, but it’s one I have to make for my own peace of mind and mental health. Thank you for the likes, the comments, the reposts. Thank you… for seeing me. Goodbye.

The first thing my lawyer told me was that, don’t help them. Let them do their work and only confirm what they already know. I had a lawyer on retainer so he was at EFCC office even before I got there, this caused a big problem because they claim i shouldn’t have a lawyer on the go when I’m not a criminal. EFCC combed my bank account for 5 days, going through every single transactions from 2017 till 2024, saw a transaction of up to N5M as at 2017 and claimed it was a red flag. Note that they didn’t have any evidence to link it to any crime. EFCC combed through my phones, read hundreds of emails, browsing history, purchase receipts, etc dating back as far as 2017, took me in for profiling three times, and yet, they couldn’t find any shred of evidence linking me to internet fraud EFCC told me that they have reason to detain me for up to 21 days without trial because according to them, I shouldn’t have N5M(single transaction) in my account as at 2017. Let that sink in!! They detained me for 8 days, tortured me for 3hrs the first day and yet they couldn’t find a single, or any shred of evidence linking me to cybercrime. Do you know how crazy it is for EFCC to investigate you for 8 days without finding any evidence of the crime you were arrested for? EFCC told me point blank that we know you’re not into fraud but “we can’t simply let you leave due to the huge sum found in your account” EFCC told my lawyer I said I don’t want to see him three times before he was eventually allowed in EFCC told my family that I declined their visitation request. Lastly EFCC said those who confessed to have committed internet fraud will leave the detention before me and they did. I was the last person to leave despite not finding a single evidence of cybercrime or internet fraud even till now