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Discovering Our Deepest Desire strives to strengthen marriages & build marriage education teams in churches to provide marriage support and encouragement.

Joined September 2014
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Four types of communication: 1) Information conversations 2) Administrative "meetings" 3) Challenges 4) Life-giving conversations
Be mindful of your words to your spouse.
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Some ways to improve communication in a relationship: - Be genuinely interested in what your partner has to say - Make eye contact when speaking - Don't look at your phone while interacting - Model respectful listening
"The more open and honest you are with your spouse, the stronger your relationship will be." -- Unknown
1) Forgiveness is more about you than them. 2) Forgiveness is about releasing them, for your sake. 3) Forgiveness is about letting go of your desire to get even. 4) Forgiveness is about clearing junk from our heart. 5) Forgiveness is about regaining control of our own emotions.
Keys to Forgiveness in a Marriage: 1) A heartfelt, verbal apology 2) A willingness to make amends 3) Patience 4) A willingness to forgive 5) A desire to rebuild trust
"Be careful with your words. Once they are said, they can be only forgiven, not forgotten." -- Unknown
"When you forgive, you in no way change the past - but you sure do change the future." -- Unknown
"In the blink of an eye, everything can change. So forgive often and love with all your heart. You may never know when you may not have that chance again." -- Unknown
Some ways to acknowledge your spouse: 1) show your appreciation 2) tell them "I love you" 3) give them your undivided attention
"Respect from others is important because it helps us to feel safe and to express ourselves. Respect means you accept your spouse for who they are, even when you don't agree with them." -- Unknown
"Respect people's feelings even if it doesn't mean anything to you, it could mean everything to them." -- Unknown
"In your marriage, you and your partner each come to the relationship as individuals. Your respect toward your spouse gives value to the differences they bring to the relationship." -- Unknown