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Making sense of things, occasionally making fun of them ☦️ https://nitter.gq/t.co/DD577zTXBo

New York, NY
Joined July 2022
Being sensitive follows an inverted U-curve. Only up until a certain point does it make your life richer (you notice more nuance, beauty, meaning, atmosphere, moods). Beyond that, it becomes a retreat into yourself. You're not actually feeling more things. You're just experiencing yourself. The senses offer a useful analogy. Imagine the person who has such an impossibly strong sense of smell that he can smell his own nose. Or the one with such hyperacuity he can see even the cornea of his own eyes. However, once the nose becomes perceptible to itself, its own smell would become the dominant odor in the olfactory field. Because it sits at the source of smelling itself. Likewise, in the same way that ringing in the ears can drown out all other sounds, if the cornea were visible to the eye, it would partially obscure everything else we see. So every faculty has a point past which more intensity stops increasing contact with reality and instead starts interfering with it. In fact, a faculty works best when it disappears into its object. Being excessively “sensitive,” although often romanticized, can turn you into an accidental narcissist, insistent on pointing the perceptual “camera” at yourself, when in reality it should be turned outward, in search of the hidden wonders of a world beyond (and greater than) you. In this way, you have to let go of your eyes to see. Let go of your emotions to feel. Let go of yourself to be.
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You know how you can tell when a song was engineered to go viral on TikTok? (killer hook but the rest of the song sucks) There’s no way “Angel of My Dreams” wasn’t written specifically for the Kylie Jenner fantasy bra reveal
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hi angry people, I'm aware the song wasn't literally made for the show! My point was that, between the dramatic, heavenly hook, swelling production, and title itself, the song felt so dead perfect for the moment of a VS angel revealing the fantasy bra – PRACTICALLY DESIGNED for it, almost LIKE a hook engineered to go viral – that I exaggerated the observation into a claim.
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babe that’s just my enemy I met on hinge
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Wearing jeans in the gym and getting looks like I forgot my hijab in Mecca
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I love how chain restaurants come with prepackaged decor, but there’s zero aesthetic standardization in terms of what you can play as music. Why is Jamba Juice playing ‘while my guitar gently weeps’
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Every religion in history has promised miracles and warned of the apocalypse. Anthropic is the first to file both with the SEC.
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Greatness either arrives in an instant, as in biblical revelation Or in the slow layering of years
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Just watched ‘Australia’ for the first time. Hugh Jackman’s cattleman character was so gorgeous that I didn’t even care that the movie was woke❤️
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Why is my 53y.o. divorced italian-american uber driver complaining to me about hypergamy
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Julia retweeted
I’ve built six side projects with AI in the last 60 days. ∙ 26,766 total website views ∙ lifechanging.emilylai.com is the most viral yet, 10k views in last 24 hours ∙ Total revenue: $6.6k unintentionally. Life changing is more intentional, I added affiliate links with a total of $8.91 made so far lol ∙ I’m learning from each: getting faster, better design, more distribution ∙ Opus 5.5 and Sol 6.1 seem fairly at parity now for building, I’m still switching between to test ∙ followthemoney.emilylai.com unlocked many conversations with people working in payments and fintech, I didn’t build for that but that was so cool ∙ I’m using AI for the website build, backend, research, video, and graphics for launches. The only thing I don’t use it for is copywriting This all began when I fully AI enabled myself in August. I had never wrote code before! Beyond side projects, I’ve tested Hermes, Tab, Grok Bot, Dots, Instict as my personal assistant agents. I feel like my learning capability and marketing ability has 10x’d. I’m still learning what are the best harnesses and setups to improve outcomes and cut myself out of the workflow further
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Women need to leave their hooded eyes alone!!! The soft, languid sultriness is beautiful You’re literally erasing your sensuality
Jennifer Lawrence photographed for The Cut 📸
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Eros is like a moving flame (unpredictable and captivating, hypnotic almost) whereas the homogenizing forces of modernity cast a sterile artificial light
Romance requires dimming the lights A hinge date is like sitting under fluorescent lighting
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You become more legible by becoming more literate
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Romance requires dimming the lights A hinge date is like sitting under fluorescent lighting
I have a theory that a formal date is often actually a terrible setting for discovering attraction. Sitting across from someone with the explicit purpose of evaluating romantic chemistry can make it harder to feel. People are often much hotter incidentally, when you get to see them in their element
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Overthinking the worst is anxiety; overthinking the best is vision. To build anything extraordinary, you need an initial dose of constructive delusion, foolish enough to defy the odds and disciplined enough to bend them.
If you can overthink the worst, why can't you overthink the best?
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yeah buddy i don't know how to tell you but a dream relationship of an 18 year old girl is with her classmate josh she yearns for in school hallways not with some antisocial creep who's been a loser since the day she was born
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Why do we consider sexual intimacy a precious thing worth preserving for marriage, but speak so casually about having given our hearts away?
We need a construct for virginity of the heart
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Pursuing your calling is basically having God as your boss
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I can smell your sad earnestness through your lowercase sentence btw. Stop writing like an abused dog. Take it seriously
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