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I bought one good pixie hair and was complaining of how full it is...my sister came by and took it... Immediately she took the thing my eye openπ... Like I miss my pixie π..this is one thing I gave out that I am regretting o.. mtcheeew
I once had a business deal with someone... online stuff which was suppose to yield something and then a certain percentage given to her..
When the business finally paid off, I started struggling with my spirit, whether to pay her or not.
The money looked so big to give away and I had many money needs that period...like God or the devil was testing me..and the truth of the matter is that if I had told her the business didn't pay, she would have believed me completely as she places so much trust in me...but you see, that's where we get it all wrong...the human nature is a greedy one, being born again does not take that away, but grants you the power to overcome it...
When I see what people allow money to turn them into, I weep, because we are suppose to be Masters of money and not slaves....
As God helped me, I was able to pay her the complete percentage and you know what ...the money needs I had were still there and life continued .
I once had a business deal with someone... online stuff which was suppose to yield something and then a certain percentage given to her..
When the business finally paid off, I started struggling with my spirit, whether to pay her or not.
The money looked so big to give away and I had many money needs that period...like God or the devil was testing me..and the truth of the matter is that if I had told her the business didn't pay, she would have believed me completely as she places so much trust in me...but you see, that's where we get it all wrong...the human nature is a greedy one, being born again does not take that away, but grants you the power to overcome it...
When I see what people allow money to turn them into, I weep, because we are suppose to be Masters of money and not slaves....
As God helped me, I was able to pay her the complete percentage and you know what ...the money needs I had were still there and life continued .
I gave a lift yesterday to one of my guy wife and the two kids ..they attend one Catholic school in the area.. when we got to the gate, I thought that's it o..you can't imagine my surprise when it took us another long mile to get to the main school..I asked her one question
So if I didn't pick you, this what you trek with the kids everyday..she said yes..I became angry in my spirit..you know what got me more angry..she was carrying another pregnancy...when I asked her ,she was like " eh Doc let's manage to make 4 nau...so my question is
If you ever have any business with a low IQ person eh..u will understand what suffering means...like some people are not intelligent one bit...Jesus Christ!!
This generation of hair stylist cannot do fine hair without edge control...carry dirty de pour person for head..
In a world where being black is a crime....it pains me because at the end of the day, there would be no justice and the cycle continues...
This Japa thing get people e de favour pass o..one of my guy traveled to UK like 5 yrs ago..in his words '" Nonso e de pain me say I no leave Niger early enough and it pains me more that you are still there"......
Me: Oga bring money first, leave Niger matter for meπ
Went to get milk for my baby today, all the stores in that area all had the same expired milk..funny thing is, when you notice it, they will do as if they are just seeing it....I can bet you many of them will clean the date and write it a fresh one...God help us in this place..
They will not die, they will live to changeπ...well said my brother
This is the last thing I will be saying about this Toluwanisings matter!!
So, listen and listen carefully!!!
Firstly, I have come to accept that many people do not understand marriage at all. Many people do not even understand the meaning of their marital vows.
This is why fully grown men, men who should know right from left, are arguing that family members should have more rights over a married man, his property or even his life than the family he has built with his wife!!!
Again, once you leave your family to start your own, the family you came from has no right to control decisions in your new family, especially when those decisions concern you, your wife and your children. This is why it is expedient your family knows they are secondary and must be taught earlier on to know their place in your life!!!
Again, a husbandβs body belongs to his wife, just as a wifeβs body belongs to her husband!!!
This is standard practice among couples who take their marriage seriously and understand what it means to be married!!!
Once you are married, your decisions concerning your body are no longer just about you alone. Your spouse has a say, just as you have a say in theirs!!!
It is on this premise that I am happy to call each and everyone of you supporting the actions of Toluwanisingsβ father and in-laws demented fools!!!
No culture or tradition is greater or more important than the wishes and sustenance of a grieving wife and her children!!!
A large chunk of you do not have love in your hearts and have zero concerns about the future of a late maβs wife and the kids. Yet, all your kpari is out just because you value something as useless as burial rites.
You all seriously need to sit down and ask yourselves whether you truly understand what marriage or starting a new family means before coming online to display your ignorance!!!
Change or die!!!!
As an Adult, why will you be writing someone's name with small letter...that nonsense pisses me off.
One thing I know is that both parties might be hurting... because nobody goes into marriage having divorce in mind and leaving someone that once meant something to you is never an easy decision...I wish them well..
I look forward to reading a book on the human brain development with some behavioural trait.. because there are people you will see and you will be like " this person's brain cannot be developed for him to be thinking this way......
Some people have no business going to higher institution..it's better you use that money and train them well in one skill.... unfortunately even skills require a greater level of intellectual ...
We owe our parents alot..if yours are still out there, call them, take good care of them.. because their sacrifice and love can never be quantified with anything..I am a parent and now I know better..
