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My wife has taught high school in Tokyo for twenty years.
Every year, a few of her students spend a year living with a family in America. When they come home, she asks each of them one question.
"What do you miss?"
She expects hamburgers.
She almost never gets hamburgers.
And these aren't old stories. Most of these kids came home in the last two years.
"Every time I left the house, my host mom said, 'Text me when you get there.' In Japan, nobody needs to know where I am. In Ohio, somebody always did." (Mina, 17, Ohio)
"If you walk toward a door, an American will hold it open. Even if you are very far away. So you have to run. I ran to so many doors." (Itsuki, 16, Georgia)
"My host brother screamed on the floor of a grocery store. A stranger walked by and said to my host mom, 'You're doing great, Mama.' She almost cried. I didn't know strangers were allowed to say that." (Aoi, 17, Texas)
"We went away for the weekend and left our trash can at the curb. When we got back, it was by the garage. Nobody said who. My host dad said if it had been there one more day, the neighbor would have knocked." (Haruto, 16, Minnesota)
"A car got stuck in the snow in front of our house. Four men came out of four houses. Nobody called them. They pushed, the car drove away, and they went back inside without saying their names." (Ren, 17, Michigan)
"Every American has jumper cables. Maybe half of them know which clip goes where. The other half help anyway." (Shin, 16, Montana)
"In July, my host family put a cooler on the porch. Cold water, snacks, and a sign: 'For our delivery drivers. Thank you!' I asked if they knew the drivers. They said no." (Nanami, 16, Arizona)
"Downtown, there are banners on the lampposts. Photos of soldiers from the town. Some old, some very young. My host grandpa walked me down the street and told me every name." (Yuna, 16, Iowa)
"I got a C-plus on my first test. My host dad said, 'I'm proud of you,' and put it on the fridge. In Japan, nobody is proud of a C-plus." (Takeru, 17, Pennsylvania)
Then the quietest girl in the class raised her hand.
Sora. Seventeen. Missouri.
"Nobody asks me 'home safe?' anymore," she said.
She was wrong.
In September, there was a typhoon warning for Tokyo. At 2 a.m., Sora's phone lit up.
It was her host mom. In Missouri. Watching the weather in a country she had never been to.
"Saw the storm. You home safe?"
Sora told my wife she cried for a long time. Then she typed the answer she had typed a hundred times, from football games and friends' driveways.
"Home safe."
Her host mom wrote back one line.
"Good. That's all I needed."
My wife has asked that question for twenty years. Not one kid has ever said they missed how big America is.
They miss how America says goodbye. And how it checks that you got home.
So, America. You think you've lost something.
You haven't. It's on a porch in Arizona. It's pushing a car in Michigan. It's awake at 2 a.m. in Missouri, watching our weather.
You don't remember doing any of it.
A kid in Tokyo will never forget.
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For those who say it’s time for universal care. I am all for it. It would be nice if we could find a way to reduce the cost of care and make it available to everyone, for anything.
But it will take work to get there. Other countries with Universal Care make “Most Things available to All People”. It’s not perfect.
In our country, we make “Everything available to Most People”.
The question for this country, unlike others, is how we can make the best possible care and therapies, regardless of cost, to everyone ?
Read @AbdulElSayed ‘s book on Medicare for All. He wisely had more questions than answers. Medicare for All ? Global Budgets ? Or something else ?
It’s a difficult path from where we are to “E4E” Healthcare. ?Everything for Everyone)
My hope is that we can put together a Simpson Bowles type, Blue Ribbon Commission. One that includes representatives of all stakeholders. From all different type of patients. Including rare disease parents. Rural and Urban Hospitals. The most expensive hospitals that offer unique care. Pharma companies that offer everything from genetics to Cell and Gene Therapies. You get the point
Some people think we can just tell all those working in the healthcare system what to do.
That’s the fastest way for this to fail. We need to be as close as we can to being on the same page. And we need to figure out a non partisan manner of running our American version of Universal Care.
No reason we can’t start now
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For almost a year, I left a hot coffee and a blueberry muffin on the same man's desk every single morning.
He was married, and everybody in the office knew it.
His wife's photo sat right beside his monitor.
Still, I kept doing it.
At first, my coworkers teased me.
A group of Gen Z interns would giggle when I walked in holding two cups.
"Girl, just admit you like him."
Even my husband joked about it at dinner.
"How's your boyfriend at work?"
I laughed it off every time.
I understood why they thought that.
Why would a married woman spend her own money on a coffee for another woman's husband every day?
I never explained myself.
Then one Thursday, his wife walked into our office without warning.
She looked at me, then at the coffee on her husband's desk.
She did not say a word.
She walked straight over and said quietly,
"Can I talk to you outside?"
My stomach dropped.
In the parking lot, she pulled out her phone and showed me a photo.
It was her husband asleep in a hospital chair, still wearing his work shirt, holding her hand.
She told me she had been sick for almost two years.
He drove ninety minutes each way to see her after work, and most nights he slept in that chair.
For months, he had stopped eating.
He said he wasn't hungry.
But there was one thing he never skipped.
"The coffee," she said. "He told me a woman at his office brings it every morning, and it's the only thing that makes him feel like a person."
My eyes stung.
I had never planned any of it.
On his first week at the company, I found him asleep in his car at 6 AM, gray in the face.
I handed him a coffee through the window and said nothing.
The next day, I did it again.
Then it became a habit.
His wife wiped her eyes.
"I used to wonder why you were so kind to him," she said. "Now I know you were giving him something I couldn't give him at the time."
Then she said something that shocked me even more.
"Every Friday for a year, there was an envelope in your desk drawer with $25 inside. Did you ever wonder who left it?"
I stared at her.
I had always assumed it was my husband.
"I started it after he told me about you," she whispered. "I didn't want you to lose money being good to us."
I started crying so hard I had to lean against the car.
She hugged me tightly.
Back inside, the interns went quiet as we walked past.
I looked at the man everyone had been teasing me about.
They thought I was trying to take someone's husband.
I was simply making sure a man who had stopped caring for himself didn't go hungry.
That night, I told my husband everything.
He put down his fork, stood up, and pulled me into a long hug.
"I'm sorry I joked," he said.
"You didn't know."
"No," he said. "But now I do."
Three months later, his wife was strong enough to come to the office for a visit.
She brought a box of muffins and set one on my desk.
On the napkin, she had written,
"Your turn to be fed."
Sometimes kindness looks suspicious when people do not know the story behind it.
And sometimes the smallest thing you do is the only thing someone else can hold onto.
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