this entire bpd discourse has basically been like oh you are drowning just swim it's not hard with a side of it's so hard and it's so inconvenient that I have to see you drown from the safety of the shore
i was rlly stressed about an outing that i think will be mentally exhausting and then remembered i dont have to do anything i dont want to do i cancelled and will instead be goinv on a solo date #healings
