that secret 6th stage of the breakup that occurs a year and a half later when he finally pleads guilty in court and you can’t stop listening to that one song by nickelback
go through significant amounts of trauma over the course of multiple years during a critical time when you were just starting to discover your true adult identity all while pursuing your formal education thus leaving you with a confused sense of self and disordered mind
women just want to feel special & secure in that specialness. if he only picks you bc everyone else said no, then you weren’t chosen, you were the default. but if he has options & chose you anyways & continues to commit to you that creates security & value. it’s as simple as that
damn that’s crazy
Person 1: They should have responded more calmly.
Autistic Person (me) : You publicly shamed them, encouraged a dogpile, and kept escalating after they became overwhelmed.
Person 1: So?
Autistic Person (me): You cannot deliberately dysregulate someone and then use their dysregulation as evidence against them.


















