Writer. Dater. Masturbator. sex and dating advice from the trenches Author of Love Poems For Butchers and upcoming collection Dating While Feminist
Vancouver, British Columbia
Joined October 2017
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If fat people experience health concerns, it’s because they’re fat.
If non-fat people experience health concerns, it’s because they’re humans living in bodies that are not permanent.
Fatphobia is just an excuse to dehumanize people. Examine your role within it.
In the year of our lord Luigi, @Wix trying to bilk me out of $510 usd because of unwanted recurrent billing for a website that receives zero traffic and was cancelled 2 weeks into the 2 year term is insane.
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Victoria is dating in her thirties and increasingly uncomfortable with the dating experiences available to her. Humorous and raw, Dating While Feminist exposes both the joys and the brutality of living in a man’s world as a (fat)woman. amazon.ca/dp/B0CQK8LB53
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Did you really want to be a parent or was having a child a way to validate your life because no one ever taught you how to do it for yourself?
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Needing a man to be interesting on a dating app isn’t about wanting to date or have a relationship. Y’all just aren’t hot enough. Wit and persoanlity are all you have to offer.
Why is this such a foreign concept to men on the apps?
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Most men aren’t attractive enough (without also being interesting) for me to want to fuck them.
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Reminder: the people fat shaming Lizzo now were never on the right side of things. Also, don’t worship celebrities. Having one or even many talents does not correlate to ethics.
Fat women encounter a special set of prejudices in dating but please remember that bad men treat all women terribly.
Women of all sizes get cheated on, abused, used, undervalued, and mistreated.
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women will be so proud of not faking an orgasm but talk to me when we’ve normalized ending sex before he cums by saying this isn’t working for me, I’m done with this now.
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What if instead of “it’s so hard for me to cum” it was “he lacks the skills and ability to please me”
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Victoria Nachos *collector’s edition* retweeted
It’s definitely a product of Puritanism and not feminism but it’s still interesting that for the thousands of jobs Barbie has had, the one thing she never was was pregnant.