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Practical, compassionate BDSM education for submissives. This account is winding down; only occasional updates will be posted. Find Submissive Guide below.

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The Kink Bundle is back! 🎉 This is my 5th year participating, and this year I contributed my favorite resource yet: The Submissive’s Toolbox. 37 BDSM, kink & D/s resources. $99. Sept. 17–23 only. Come see what makes your kinky brain go “OOOH.” 😈 subgui.de/kinkbundle
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This book is not just a dirty talk manual full of many practical examples, it is a complete guide that will accompany you step by step in improving all aspects of your sex life, nothing will be left to chance. amzn.to/3rSrQ5d #amazon #subguide #affiliate
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Full transparency isn't just something we bat around on BDSM forums. It's important in any relationship, regardless of dynamic, or lack thereof. It is the key to "making it work". And it's best to start at the beginning. bit.ly/SGHonestCommunication #subguide
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"Love is that condition in which the happiness of another person is essential to your own." -- Robert Heinlein
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Submitting While One of You is Sick One of the strangest full-time submitting challenges I’ve found is dealing with your role as a submissive when either you or your Dom is ill. So how do you cope when one of you is ill? bit.ly/Sub-While-Sick #subguide
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Submissive Guide Recommends: Negotiating Your Power Dynamic Relationship by Raven Kaldera amzn.to/3G7vAqP #amazon #subguide #affiliate
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Always Getting in Trouble - Submissive Meditation Monday It seems that no matter how long you've been doing this thing we call submission, there are times of rebellion, confusion, frustration and just not getting it right. bit.ly/SG-AlwaysInTrouble
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Where does sex fall on your list of basic relationship needs? Why?
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Tying and Flying by Shay Tiziano This first-ever guide to self-suspension takes a thorough and nondogmatic approach, including everything from meticulous safety information to practical step-by-step rope bondage instruction. amzn.to/3PsO7Bd #suguide #amazon #affiliate
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Am I Ready to Go from Online Submission to Real Life? Online D/s is nothing like real time because on the internet you can suspend life. When you can say "I am ready" rather than "Am I ready?" it's time to step out into the world. bit.ly/Online-RealLife
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