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How to get high-quality wholesome girls:
A lot of you want serious LTRs
It's a great goal. Some of the best times of my life (and the best sex) were when I was in an LTR
Here's how:
FIRST
Go for younger girls (18-22)
This is the best possible filter for high-quality girls
The fact is - the older a girl gets, the more "experience" she accumulates
Experience is universally bad for girls
Experience = trauma
Every ex-bf = trauma
Every dick = TRAUMA
Wholesome girls are LESS experienced and MORE innocent
Are there older girls who are still wholesome? Of course. But they are the exception, not the rule
Like it or not, this is simply the truth
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SECOND
Adapt your style to the type of girl you're talking to
Most of the "game" advice on here is geared toward fucking slutty girls
With slutty girls you:
-move at breakneck speed
-cockymaxx
-close hard
But you CAN'T DO THIS with wholesome girls. You'll send them running
(They're more innocent & don't sleep around)
You need to move a bit slower. Be more patient and gentle
Move forward with masculine intent, but reign in your aggression
Wholesome girls don't fuck on the first date. If they did, THEY WOULDN'T BE WHOLESOME!
All the best girls I've had LTRs with took AT LEAST 3-4 dates to have sex (often more)
Play the long game
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THIRD
Turn down your "bad boy" dial, turn up your "good guy" dial
The bad boy traits that are attractive to women are attractive to ALL women:
-sex appeal
-confidence
-other options
-dgaf energy
HOWEVER
You need to turn DOWN the dial on those traits for wholesome girls
Not all the way down—you still need to keep your masculine edge—but down enough that she doesn't think you're just a player and nothing more
Turn UP the dial on:
-stability
-availability
-emotional connection
-patience
She is still attracted to bad boy traits, but she doesn't want a bad boy
She wants a GOOD MAN with an edge
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Also -
As with all things, you attract what you are
If you're a loser with no job or purpose or ambition, why would a high-quality wholesome girl want to be with you?
Look to yourself first.
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Never listen to the doomers
There are still LOTS of beautiful, feminine, wholesome girls out there
(I put an example in the replies below)
It's up to YOU to find them, and to be the type of man they're looking for
Godspeed 💪🏼
I had a wholesome 20 yo girl recently that moved from Seattle for college
(Different girl than the selfie above)
Sweet, quiet, beautiful, phenomenal body and she'd only been with one other guy
Met her on Tinder (oddly enough)
I almost didn't go out with her because she went to an all-girls school that's famous for churning out hyper-lesbian shitlib types
But she was open and I liked her energy so I did
We went for a nature walk near her school, then I walked her back to campus
I was planning to just let her go and not even kiss her, but she wanted to show me her favorite spot on campus so we walked over to a little bench terrace overlooking a pond
We sat and talked for a long time and the sun set over the pond
After a while she said something like, "I'm not sure if you'll want to see me again, will you?"
So I leaned over and kissed her
I said, "Does that answer your question?"
2nd date was a forest hike and sushi. I gently asked her back to my place after but I knew she wouldn't and I was fine with that, I knew I had to be patient, I just wanted to show intent
3rd date we walked downtown, visited some shops, had food, and she came back to my place after
We watched Apocalypto (a terrible movie for girls but I wanted to watch it 😁)
She stayed the night.
After that I would visit her on campus and stay in her dorm room sometimes, which was VERY strange because it's an all-girls school so I had to risk being charged with sex crimes every time I went into the bathroom to piss 🤣
We eventually stopped getting together because I wasn't giving her enough time and she knew I was seeing other girls
(i.e. I didn't commit to her)
The cost of being a player...
She was one of the good ones
(Miss her)
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Ignoremaxxing is real 😁
When she’s on the hook no response hits harder than being texting buddies.
Sometimes I wish this stuff didn’t work.
But I’ve been try hard maxing so long it’d be impossible to not stumble into a few heuristics that objectively work better than others.
And people who follow along get similar results.
Who woulda thought?
Learning game is awesome because you can get unbelievable newbie gains
In 2-3 months (or less) you can go from incel to player
Get:
-a fresh cut & style
-a few killer pics
-a favorite bar
Then rip through dating apps like mad, go on 3-4 dates a week, get past the "nervous" phase, fuck a bunch of girls
Get EXPERIENCE
Then,
one night you rock up to a first date with a smirk, confident & relaxed, and you meet the chick...
& you notice SHE'S nervous
You're relaxed, you feel good, and SHE'S nervous
Your whole brain flips over in that moment and you realize you've become a new man
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The day you feel genuinely CONFIDENT with women is a major turning point in your life
& it's something that can never be taken away from you
Swipehound | Raw Dating App Game retweeted
I love women.
Just because we’re educated about how the world works doesn’t mean we can’t love them.
When you love something you open yourself up to not having your feelings reciprocated.
But that’s the cost of doing business.
And it’s where a lot of guys turn to negative, bitter, complaints instead of channeling this dark energy into productivity.
No risk of downside no upside.
Pity the women who don’t want to get along with me because we’d have a great time together.
Talking shit about women is easy. Most guys do, and it’s fucking lame. It's the bottomfeeder conformist path
Take the higher road and say GOOD things instead
Start with “I love women”
Better men than you and I have been saying this for centuries
You should be pursuing sex so aggressively with every chick you're talking to that she VERY QUICKLY has to either say Yes or No
Don't waste your time with "maybe"
YES & fuck
or NO & move on
Confident men push for sex FAST
I've seen a LOT of dating app profiles
Believe me when I say:
The single highest-ROI thing you can do for dating success is to get lean and show it off
Get lean
& Show it OFF
There's nothing that screams "sex appeal" more than visible abs & veins
There's nothing that screams "hot guy" more than a sharp jaw & granite chin
This needs to be your #1 priority
GET LEAN
and
SHOW IT OFF
Side note -
The girl in this Tinder screenshot, I did end up meeting her and taking her home on the first date. She looked EXACTLY like Jennifer Aniston, to the point where she was annoyed by it because people constantly told her she looked EXACTLY like Jennifer Aniston 🤣
Face, height, build, everything
I've never found Jennifer Aniston particularly attractive myself (I like brunettes) but it was still cool to fuck her doppelgänger
Lemme break this down real simple:
BLUEPILL
>plugged-in beta males who say "happy wife happy life!" and call their wives "The Boss"
BLACKPILL
>losers who fight tooth and nail to find ANY excuse to justify their lack of success
REDPILL
>proactive guys who learn about true female nature, improve themselves, and become successful with women
WHITEPILL
>spiritually advanced aristocrats of the soul who bend reality to their will through sheer delusional optimism
Choose wisely
Women will genuinely believe you're taller than you are if they're attracted to you
I'm well below 6', but I remember this one chick -
I went straight over her house to hook up, we fucked all night, she was super into me
In the morning she said, "You're so tall. What are you, like 6'3?"
I almost laughed, like "What?? Not quite 🤣"
Then a different chick, I met her at a bar and she was bitchy and sullen. She didn't seem to like me
(I found out later she used to do OF 😬)
Outside in the parking lot after a few drinks she said, "You're kinda short, what are you like 5'8?"
That's a SEVEN INCH difference, purely based on female perception
-attraction adds height
-aura & presence add height
-confidence adds height
Sometimes, a 5'7 guy is taller than a 6'2 guy
One more story from my own perception:
I used to have a jiu jitsu coach that I trained with for years. Black belt, huge personality, badass guy. I respected him a ton
One day he casually mentioned he was 5'7
I was dumbstruck. I'd never once "thought" about his height because why would I care, but I somehow couldn't believe he was only 5'7
Because he was LARGER THAN LIFE and I respected him
Even after that he legitimately seemed taller than most other guys in my eyes. He'd be standing next to bigger guys and my eyes and brain would play tricks on me and make him seem taller
Very strange and eye-opening
All of modern women's "criteria" for sexual partners are complete nonsense & nothing but a large-scale SHIT TEST
Guys think it's over if you:
-are under 6'
-have a receding hairline
-don't have a 6 pack
-aren't rich
All because girls go on TikTok & podcasts and spread these dumb takes for views
Brother
You are simply FAILING A FEMALE SHIT TEST
If you care, you fail
If you get defensive, you fail
If you insult her back, you fail
Women are testing you for strength and if you fail the shit test you are WEAK
All the nonsense women say only matters if YOU think it matters
Stop giving a fuck
& you pass the test
Shit test (noun):
A social challenge or provocative remark used in dating and relationships—most commonly attributed to women—to test a man's confidence, emotional stability, boundaries, and overall social strength.
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Modern men are weaker than ever, which is why women are testing them harder than ever
(This is all subconscious, hardwired into female nature. Most women don't even realize they're doing it)
Don't fail the test brother