Something I've heard tmascs express grief over is losing inherent acknowledgement of (or solidarity over) the pain of childhood once they're seen as grown men and I'd argue that 1. Women aren't actually given much space to process it in broader society
4. The lesson to take from seeing women comfort and heal together is not that it's only possible for them. Or only possible by staying closeted. We have to give it to ourselves. As for anyone who can't stand to acknowledge the reality of our struggles, the fault lies in them.
