there’s no form of validation, peace and love anybody wants to give me that i don’t already feel within myself. what keeps me going is just financial freedom for myself, my family and loved ones + the power of sovereignty, fulfillment of purpose, and amazing people around.
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X is like a personal journal only that you want the right minds to stumble upon it and resonate with the proceedings of your thoughts and in extense, life.
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If you can create an atmosphere that softens people’s resistances and encourages them to share their challenges, they’ll unravel things about themselves that would leave you in astonishment as to how distorted and shallow your presumption of them was.
I think 69 might actually be massively overrated, and trust me when I say this, it's far from being a skill issue.
It's far more aesthetically pleasing to look at and fantasise about than it is satisfying to engage in. Much of the pleasure is lost in the transit of trying...
own end of things. I can assure you that both people fully enjoying themselves in the aspect of giving and receiving at the same time is far less likely than the fantasy suggests.
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I love this beautiful insight.
Love is never any better than the Lover. Wicked people love wickedly, violent people love violently, weak people love weakly, stupid people love stupidly, but the love a free man is never safe. There is no gift for the beloved. The lover alone possess his gift of love. The loved one is shorn, neutralized, frozen in the glance of the lover's inward eyes.
-Toni Morrison
Replying to @Yorubamaiden
I perfectly understand your point but then I'm inclined to believe that we sometimes ask too much of love, burdening it with expectations beyond what it can actually sustain. We treat it as infallible, as though it were some divine remedy capable of correcting every human...
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Love must be the closest thing to filth. What I mean to say is that the more intimately and bare we know people, we are likely to be repulsed by their frailties. This is why love is an intentional intent. We are deliberate about our choices. We love people after we have seen who and what it is that they are.
Love makes space for people to show up bare, you find no shame in their flaws, their ordinariness, and imperfections.
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I don't sweat, matters of the heart. I'm convinced I'll always find an interesting woman to date, in the middle of the next interesting activity I'm on. I don't know if that's nonchalance or faith but romance, for me, has never been a pursuit; rather the consequence of my living.
Ruthlessness is the ability to prevent compassion, attachment and sentiment from compromising sound judgment. It's making the right decision even when your emotions are begging you to make the wrong one.
It's not about cruelty for the sake of it, but the discipline to uphold...
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HOW TO IMPROVE YOUR ARTICULATION AND EXPRESS YOUR THOUGHTS BETTER
I saw your tweet and decided to bookmark it so I could write extensively on it when I had ample time. This is lengthy, but I took my time to put it together because I wanted to give you and everyone else struggling with articulating their thoughts clear, practical ways to improve.
First, articulation is a skill you develop through deliberate practice, not a gift reserved for naturally intelligent people. You can be highly educated, well-read, and knowledgeable but still struggle to express your thoughts clearly. Sometimes, you know exactly what you mean, but the words don't come out the way you intended. The goal is to bridge that gap between thinking and expressing yourself.
Here are some things that can help.
1. READ TO UNDERSTAND, NOT JUST TO FINISH BOOKS
Pay attention to how good writers construct sentences, introduce ideas, explain complex issues, and connect their thoughts. Don't just focus on what an author is saying. Study how they communicate it, why they choose certain words, and how they make their ideas easy to understand.
2. PRACTISE EXPLAINING THINGS IN SIMPLE LANGUAGE
Choose a subject you understand and try explaining it to someone who knows nothing about it. The goal is to communicate the idea clearly without losing its meaning. The ability to simplify a complicated idea without losing its meaning is a strong sign of good articulation.
3. SPEAK ALOUD AND PRACTISE REGULARLY
Spend 10 minutes daily speaking aloud about a subject. Pick a topic, speak about it for two minutes without preparing anything beforehand, and record yourself. Listen to the recording and pay attention to whether your ideas follow a logical sequence, whether you repeat yourself unnecessarily, and whether you complete your thoughts clearly.
Don't obsess over your accent. The goal is clarity, not sounding British or American.
4. LEARN TO ORGANISE YOUR THOUGHTS
Sometimes, what appears to be a vocabulary problem is actually a thinking problem. You may have several ideas in your head but struggle to arrange them in a way that makes sense to others.
One simple structure I would like to recommend is: POINT - REASON - EXAMPLE - CONCLUSION. State what you believe, explain why you believe it, give an example, and conclude your point. This helps you communicate complete thoughts instead of jumping between unrelated ideas.
5. BUILD YOUR VOCABULARY THROUGH USAGE
Don't memorise big words just to sound intelligent. Learn words that help you express yourself more precisely.
Whenever you encounter a new word, understand its meaning, construct your own sentence with it, and practise using it in conversation or writing. This helps you move beyond merely recognising words when reading to using them naturally when communicating.
6. WRITE, THEN EDIT WHAT YOU WRITE
Writing forces you to slow down and examine your thoughts. Try writing a short paragraph daily about something you believe, observed, or learned.
After writing, ask yourself: Is my point clear? Am I repeating myself? Have I explained my reasoning? Could I communicate the same idea in fewer words?
7. STUDY PEOPLE WHO COMMUNICATE WELL
Pay attention to articulate speakers, thoughtful interviewers, and good writers. Don't merely imitate their vocabulary; study how they introduce arguments, explain their reasoning, use examples, and respond to questions.
8. STOP RUSHING TO RESPOND
You don't have to answer every question immediately. Take a moment to understand what is being asked, organise your thoughts, and identify your main point before responding.
Ultimately, Khanani, good articulation isn't about using big words or trying to sound like the most educated person in the room. It is about organising your thoughts, choosing the right words, and communicating your ideas clearly enough for others to understand exactly what you mean.
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You can call yourself a "critical thinker" all you want but if you're hostile to different perspectives, you're just solipsistic.
I repeat, nothing will make a woman have the effrontery to speak to me that way!
Saying all I can control is how I act after she does it, lmao, funny. Bro I make it very clear to every woman I'm close with that I do not tolerate disrespect. I don't have to wait for it to...
so I must be doing something right. 😂
If that foolish girl in that post hadn't blocked me, I wouldn't have to taint my page with all this unnecessary shalaye sha, but then here we are.
















