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What if we’ve been getting education backwards this entire time?
Maslow Before Bloom.
You’ve seen it on Facebook. You’ve seen the hashtag. Maybe you’ve seen it on T-shirts, heard about it at school, or read one of the books.
But what does it actually mean?
Imagine having the worst day of your life.
You’re exhausted. You’re anxious. Something is happening at home. You barely slept. Maybe you haven’t eaten.
Now imagine someone handing you a worksheet and saying, “Pay attention. Focus. Do your best.”
How well would YOU do? Now imagine being 8 years old. That’s Maslow Before Bloom.
Maslow reminds us that people need safety, belonging, connection, and support.
Bloom reminds us that learning involves understanding, thinking, creating, and growing.
Maslow Before Bloom reminds us that we can’t ignore the human being while trying to educate the student.
It doesn’t mean lowering expectations.
It doesn’t mean eliminating consequences.
And it doesn’t mean children have to be happy every minute to learn.
It means recognizing that what’s happening inside a child affects what happens inside a classroom.
Think about it.
-A hungry child may struggle to concentrate.
-An anxious child may struggle to remember.
-A lonely child may struggle to participate.
-A child dealing with trauma may struggle to feel safe.
-And a child who believes nobody cares may eventually stop trying.
And here’s the part we don’t talk about enough…
The same is true for teachers.
We can’t expect exhausted, overwhelmed, unsupported educators to keep giving more without supporting them, too.
So what does Maslow Before Bloom look like in real life?
It’s greeting a child by name.
It’s asking “What’s going on?” instead of immediately asking “What’s wrong with you?”
It’s noticing the quiet student.
It’s giving a struggling child another chance.
It’s making classrooms places where mistakes are okay.
It’s supporting teachers instead of constantly adding more to their plates.
It’s remembering what it felt like to be a kid.
It’s connection before correction. Understanding before judgment. People before programs.
Dr. Bryan Pearlman, an educator, therapist, former principal, and author, has spent years sharing this message through his Maslow Before Bloom books and professional development trainings across the country.
And here’s what I hope every educator and parent remembers:
Children may forget what we taught them. But they’ll remember how we made them feel.
They’ll remember who believed in them.
-Who listened.
-Who noticed.
-Who gave them hope.
-And who refused to give up on them.
That’s Maslow Before Bloom.
-Not a hashtag.
-Not a T-shirt.
-Not just another educational initiative.
A reminder that children are human beings first.
And so are the people who teach them.
Join 38,000+ people who believe in this message!
Join the Maslow Before Bloom Facebook group - acommunity of educators, parents, administrators, and mental health professionals:
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Now I have two questions:
1. Who was the teacher or adult who made YOU feel like you mattered?
2. What’s ONE thing schools could do tomorrow to better support students AND teachers?
I’d love to read your answers.
Please share this. Someone working with children might need this reminder today.
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Today we celebrated our principal’s @bmccollum3 birthday by stepping into HER shoes, literally! We understood the assignment! Happy Birthday to the QUEEN of Forestridge! #RISDDreamOn #RoadrunnerRisers
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Just a little reminder that Forestridge has some of the BEST smiles around! 😁 We’re not trying to be biased or anything… but the evidence is pretty convincing! Our Roadrunners are bringing the smiles every single day! #RoadrunnersRising #RISDDreamOn
It’s amazing when a student gets “it” and is able to demonstrate it in more ways than one; they made sure to draw Carl diving. It was a happy Friday for me teaching sixth grade at Forestridge, where we are rising “From Growth to Greatness!” #RISDDreamOn #RoadrunnersRising
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MASLOW BEFORE BLOOM: YOU CAN’T TEACH A BRAIN THAT DOESN’T FEEL SAFE.
We ask kids to focus, learn, behave, problem-solve, and achieve.
But sometimes we forget what has to come first.
A student who is scared, hungry, overwhelmed, anxious, exhausted, or disconnected may not be ready for Bloom’s Taxonomy.
They may need Maslow first.
Maslow Before Bloom means helping students feel safe, seen, connected, supported, and capable — so their brains are more available for learning.
And this applies to STAFF, too.
So what can we do?
• Greet people by name.
• Connect before you correct.
• Create calm/reset spaces.
• Ask what’s behind the behavior.
• Notice effort, not just outcomes.
• Check on staff as people, not just employees.
• Make it safe to struggle, ask for help, and try again.
This isn’t about lowering expectations. It’s about creating the conditions that help people reach them.
Sometimes the most powerful intervention is simply: “I see you. I’m glad you’re here. We’ll figure this out together.”
That’s Maslow Before Bloom.
What’s ONE thing your school does to help students or staff feel safe, connected, and valued?
Share it below, someone may bring your idea to their school tomorrow.
Join the “Maslow Before Bloom” Facebook group: Facebook.com/groups/maslowbe…
#MaslowBeforeBloom #Teachers #Education #MentalHealth #SchoolCulture
I love this! Dr. Lloyd Wilkins in elementary, and Mrs. Millerman in high school.
They may forget the lesson. They may never forget the person who believed in them.
A child can spend about 16,000 hours in school from kindergarten through 12th grade.
That is 16,000 hours of chances for an educator to make a child feel:
Seen.
Safe.
Capable.
Important.
Worth believing in.
Research shows that great teachers can make a real difference in student achievement.
But some of the most important things educators change will never show up on a test.
Sometimes the biggest impact sounds like:
“I can do this.”
“I belong here.”
“Someone sees something in me.”
“Maybe my future can be different.”
Years later, students may forget the activiy, the grade, or the lesson. But they often remember the teacher who noticed them.
The teacher who gave them another chance.
The teacher who made them laugh on a hard day.
The teacher who believed in them before they believed in themselves.
Educators don’t just teach children.
They help shape who children believe they can become.
If an educator changed your life, tag them or write their name in the comments.
And if you know a teacher who needs this reminder today, share this with them.
You may never fully know your impact.
But someone, somewhere, may still be carrying it with them.
#teacher #school #backtoschool #traumainformed #Teachersof𝕏
An emotionally dysregulated adult, cannot ground an emotionally dysregulated child. Remember to put on your oxygen mask first, then help others.
WHEN A CHILD IS FALLING APART, REMEMBER: LESS TALK. MORE CALM.
When a child or teen is having huge emotions, intense anxiety, or is on the edge of a panic attack, our instinct is often to talk MORE.
We explain.
We reassure.
We ask questions.
We give advice.
We try to convince them everything is okay.
But in that moment, they may not need a better explanation.
They need to borrow your calm.
Remember the 4 S’s:
-SOFT
-SLOW
-SHORT
-SAFE
🗣️ SOFT — Lower your voice.
Not louder. Not firmer. Softer. Your tone can communicate safety before your words ever do.
🐢 SLOW — Slow everything down.
Your voice. Your movements. Your breathing. Your questions. Their nervous system is speeding up. Yours doesn’t have to join it.
🤫 SHORT — Use fewer words.
An overwhelmed brain may struggle to process a lecture, a bunch of questions, or complicated directions.
Try:
💙 “I’m right here.”
🫶 “You’re safe with me.”
⏳ “Take your time.”
❤️ “We don’t have to solve this right now.”
1️⃣ “One thing at a time.”
🌬️ “Breathe with me.”
🛟 SAFE — Be the safe person, not the problem solver.
Sit nearby. Give them space. Reduce noise and stimulation. Don’t demand eye contact. Don’t argue with the emotion. And please don’t keep saying, “Calm down.”
Help their BODY feel safe first.
Then talk.
Because when someone is drowning in a big emotion, they usually don’t need us standing on shore explaining how to swim.
They need us to help them get their head above water. 🛟
So next time a child, teen—or honestly, an adult—is overwhelmed, remember:
🗣️ SOFT.
🐢 SLOW.
🤫 SHORT.
🛟 SAFE.
You don’t need the perfect words.
❤️ Sometimes your calm IS the intervention.
🔖 SAVE THIS for the moment you need it.
❤️ SHARE it with a parent, teacher, coach, counselor, or anyone who works with kids.
— Dr. Bryan Pearlman
Therapist • Former Principal & Teacher
#ParentingTips #ChildMentalHealth #AnxietySupport #EmotionalRegulation #BackToSchool
Today with PD, we did the Myers-Briggs Type Indicator (MBTI), where it said as a type ESNJ, I have “little patience with confusion and efficiency, or lack of follow-through.” My partner is a different type; understanding this is helpful to us working as a team! #RISDDreamOn
ESTJ, previously ENFJ. Which Amber reminded me, if we are growing and changing, why wouldn’t our personality types. Today made previous interactions with others make sense now knowing their personality types. Thank you @BallastShawna for an insightful morning. #RoadRunnersRising
Day 2 brought campus team building in the afternoon. @FRERoadrunners A time was had by all. At The Ridge we are going “From Growth to Greatness.” #RoadRunnersRising #RISDDreamOn #RISDGreatness @LiliOrtizLD @bmccollum3 @MsTippitt2U @Michaeldmc1911 @IamBranum
Watching you grow in the music program in RISD, I was sure you’d return and join the rest of the family working here, but it didn’t happen. Congrats, Naji, on becoming Asst Percussion Director at McKinney North HS! I am ecstatic for you, and wish you a great year! #RISDGreatness
I love when the universe gives confirmation that I am exactly where I am supposed to be; right in the middle of my game. Day 2, discussion about Strive vs stride with Joshua Richardson at #RISDTWG My stride is creating a culture of excellence in my classroom; it is my superpower!
Like Day 1, Day 2 of TWG was filled with great sessions. Thank you to everyone who attended The Math Ain't Mathing to learn about play that includes ALL students. A time was had by all! @SeeJack09034219 #RISDTWG #RISDDreamOn
Growing Strong Classrooms Aligning Emergent Tree, Tier 1 Practices & District Core Values with Tiffany Frezza puts action and expectations in alignment with our district core values of being safe, respectful, and responsible. #RISDTWG
Sierra Heyward is giving tips about Behavior and How to De-escalate to a standing group in session 2 on day 2 of #TWG
Day 2 of TWG has started with Justin Richardson asking us about our superpower. Stride Guy is pouring into RISD. What is the difference between stride and strive; how do we find our stride? #RISDTWG #RISDDreamOn
Day 2 TWG will be as great as day 1. Join us to end the day with math fun. We will show you ways to engage ALL students. @SeeJack09034219 and I will see you session 4, The Math Ain’t Mathing. #RISDTWG #RISDDreamOn
Day 1 of TWG was filled with great sessions. My day ended presenting with @SeeJack09034219 to a full room. The Math Ain't Mathing returns tomorrow, Session 4. Meet us there to learn about low prep collaborative play for ALL in Math! #RISDTWG @IamBranum @bmccollum3 @LiliOrtizLD


























