be honest: what's one thing someone can do that instantly makes you lose interest in them?
not a huge red flag. just something small that gives you the ick 💀
I am still too autistic to understand being told “omg we need to hang out” “hey let’s sit on the porch sometime while the kids play” “hey girl let’s make plans!!” 2-3 times a week ACTUALLY means “no I don’t want to hang out, wtf gave you that idea?”
If you were in your school's gifted and talented program in the 90s, how's it going with your ADHD/Autism, perfectionism-turned-burnout, and high-functioning anxiety?
Bonus points if you're an eldest daughter and on a spiritual journey.
