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“Healthy disagreeability with people that I like.” No swallowed words or reactions. No hidden resentment.
Batsi lana: “Take the blame and disappear. Even if it doesn’t make sense.” And you know what, sengivile 🙏🏿
LiShambula 👑 retweeted
at some point you have to stop treating the person who hurt you like the final authority on whether you're worthy of being loved.
Things no one asked about:
Love is never any better than the lover. A lover can never give a love they don’t embody. A gentle lover can only ever give gentle love. A chaotic lover will only hand you chaos. You can never give what you don’t have.
LiShambula 👑 retweeted
sometimes I have to remind myself that there is someone out there for which wanting me and being with me is as natural as wanting a meal or a drink of water...& I don't need to entertain a love that comes with excuses and wavering and silly complications.
LiShambula 👑 retweeted
And ultimately, relationships are about taking turns. Any relationship where only one person ever gets a turn, to be prioritised, to be helped, to be ill, to be vulnerable, to need, to be…whatever, will ultimately suffer. Because everyone needs and deserves a turn.
Sengiyamati lolokumele angishade kodvwa angati ubhizi ngani nyalo. Utangitsatsa sekakhala ngiyambona 😏
Hhawu phela sivelelwe maMedals yehheni kwatsi kusho ngiwo 😭✋🏿😂 Congratulations phela maswati lamahle! 🙏🏿
LiShambula 👑 retweeted
It’s always “im in love with you” it’s never “im going to diligently work on my abandonment wounds so i can offer you a care that is hinged upon sustainability and transcendent consideration”
