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Piscataway territories
Joined September 2013
The exhaustion wives have from task delegation, organizational labour, anticipating needs, child care &domestic care leaves little to no room to cultivate &nurture desire. That’s in addition to husbands not cultivating beauty &wonderment in the relationship.
i’m genuinely curious. is this a libido issue, a trauma response, or a case of sexual compatibility not being fully considered before marriage? or is there something about the dynamics of marriage itself that causes women to lose sexual desire for their partners?
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Treating symptoms is not the same as treating dysfunction and damage. This is probably the single most important rule in chronic illness treatment and recovery. Both are important - most people focus just on symptoms. Just think about what this leads too. If recovery is the goal you need to use methods that help healing, that correct dysfunction, that help fix damage. The MCAS-leaky gut axis is a good example. Treating the symptoms of MCAS using antihistamines will not help fix the dysfunction of the leaky gut. In MECFS there are dozens of examples like this where 'treatment' focuses on the wrong thing. Go through your daily meds...think about what they are doing (and not doing).
This is a small case series of patients with refractory neuropsychiatric disorders such as depression, anxiety, OCD, ADHD and more, who experienced significant improvement after subsequent diagnosis and treatment of MCAS. While the average person still thinks that histamine for example is just something related to allergies, let’s not forget that histamine acts as a neurotransmitter in the brain, influencing things such as arousal, attention, mood, sleep, and motivation. So when levels build up it can create: -Restlessness and physical + mental hyperactivity -Difficulty concentrating, brain fog, inattention -Irritability, impulsivity, or agitation -Sleep disturbances (insomnia or poor sleep quality) -Anxiety or sensory sensitivities -Hyper arousal -Racing thoughts, anxiety/panic, or restlessness -Insomnia or disrupted sleep cycles (common in manic phases) -Depressive symptoms (fatigue, brain fog, low motivation) during crashes -Emotional lability or energy fluctuations Of course, we don’t pull all these out of our asses. There are more reports noting that histamine flares can mimic manic/depressive episodes, and MCAS patients sometimes receive initial bipolar diagnoses.
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Please. It’s beyond white people adopting Black kids bc its cheaper than adopting a white child. Studies show how white adoptive parents espouse harmful race-based color blindness rhetoric and “I don't see color” ideologies. It's not only a lie but harmful to their Black kids.
How is it inherently racist to adopt black children? When your evidence is that the whole adoption system is fucked up because you’re buying children?
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I had to take a little break to rest my eyes & voice after recording the audio for my upcoming book (which you can preorder at simonandschuster.com/books/D…). So it took me a while to get to the indomitable Arundhati Roy''s essay, Apocalypse Now and Then (H/t) @ambaonadventure. 🧵
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This is only one too, they have plans for about a hundred of them in Finland. The "investigations" into their illegal activities are clearly rigged and nobody's stopping them. Our government finally achieved their goal and fully sold us to USA to do whatever they want with.
How big of a data center are they even building, do they really need to cut this much forest???
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One of the most successful things both parties have achieved is convincing Americans that our foreign policy has absolutely nothing to do with our domestic policy, and that the woes of the world aren't directly tied to our own.
I'm borrowing money to keep up with increasing medical costs, food and bills but I'm getting calls, messages and leaflets on my door talking about genocide? Are you kidding me? Fuck you and your bullshit genocide cries. IDGAF! I'm tired of it.
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On this day in 1870, a Black politician named Wade Perrin was assassinated by a white mob one day after he was re-elected to the South Carolina House of Representatives. calendar.eji.org/racial-inju…
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Everyone predicted this except The Management.
This was so foreseeable (indeed my early prediction when ChatGPT came out) but a lot of tech people have a hard time understanding that the hypothetical enriching use of a tech loses out to the lazy corner cutting use 99.9% of the time theguardian.com/technology/2…
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You have to be the most morally bankrupt piece of shit on the planet to ever say that a 1 year old baby being shot is justified, but this is how dehumanized Black children are in this country. Their lives don’t matter to these people, and they make that clear every single day.
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The death penalty isn't just cruel, it's an inherently racist practice as Black People are disproportionately affected by it than white people. Abolish it.
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This is also by design, the government and corporations dont want the public to be able to grow their own food, the same is true for farmers who legally cannot own the seeds they sow
fun fact abt me. I planted a lemon seed using a grocery store lemon during lockdown in 2020 & it actually grew into a tree, but I didn't know that most store lemons are STERILE and won't bear fruit if you plant them! u have to graft a sexually viable tree onto the sterile tree! +
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journals.sagepub.com/doi/10.… “Isolate, Inebriate, Intimidate, Repeat: High Rates of Sexual Force Against Women Are Reported When Young Men Given Anonymous Surveys” by L O’ Sullivan & S Ronis
95% of men in a recent study admitted to using a method for getting sex from a woman they knew didn't want it. And all these researchers had to do was promise one thing that no one would ever find out. So the study comprised of 2,689 men. Their ages ranged from 18 to 34. These are not prisoners, These are just regular people, a community sample. Two-thirds of them were employed full-time and half of them were in relationships. The tactics include: “Get her away from everyone. Isolate her. Get her somewhere private and under your control. Keep her drunk if she's already drunk”. Some of them used physical restraints and two-thirds of these occasions ended in the sex he wanted. So these same men are in your comments right now or in my comments too typing “not all men”. Knowing damn well its fucking 95%
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They're inspired by the French Revolution but terrified by the Haitian Revolution because of racism.
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“Forever chemicals” pollute 83% of 1,602 U.S. waterways tested, a report finds. A Great Lakes PFAS Action Network co-chair warns the findings “dramatically understate” the problem. truthout.org/articles/report…
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Can you imagine how she treats Black people in her care when there are no cameras. Anti-Black racism in healthcare is real.
A racist woman on the TTC knocks a baby stroller out of the way to sit down & calls the mother a “black biotch” while wearing a Sunnybrook health & Sciences badge & sweater. She then harasses another passenger after he calls her a racist & tries to knock his phone out of his hand
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Joking about women dressing like whores is about maligning morally neutral behaviors--how someone is dressed, how many sexual partners they've had, etc--to implicitly or explicitly create consensus that they're deserving of some form of violence/degradation etc
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Some students at Northwestern University are now asking whether they should stay in mathematics at all, after OpenAI posted hundreds of AI-generated papers on open problems in a single release. Antonio Auffinger, a professor of mathematics at Northwestern University says his own priority has moved to keeping talented people in the field and helping them grow.
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Wrapping paper is back! After 2 years of not being able to offer, I now have a collection of holiday wrapping paper featuring Black Santa, Black Ballerinas and yes that’s Santa in Buffs. These sale out quickly so I’m starting early this year! deelasheeartistry.com/artpri…
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“If Covid was causing immunodeficiency, there would be signs.”
Deadly, brain-liquifying fungus is on the rise in the US - and scientists don't know why trib.al/kZKKhCK
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The fact that you think sleeping with a woman makes you a man, but that same woman sleeping with you makes her a hoe, is a level of intellectual dishonesty that needs to be studied. You participated in the same act, but somehow you came out a king and she came out damaged goods? Mathematics of misogyny 2026 👏🏽😂
seeing a hoe you cracked become a wife is so hilarious.
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