#sigma Astrology for men. A dumb person's idea of a smart man. All maps are wrong, some are useful. I take myself very seriously.
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1/2 Logically that’s true. But if a woman compliments you on a skill or achievement it’s better to say something like: “Thanks, it just comes easy to me / I’m naturally awesome / I guess I was lucky to be born good at this” than “I spent 10 years working on it”
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The way to escape being an average hopeless loser man was once well known by all: learn to play electric guitar. Everyone who wasn’t up to that challenge, who neither wanted to at least get jacked or rich or ride a motorcycle, and had no other niche quality or interest that afforded him his desired social life (D&D nerds and Ren Fest guys are not hurting for pussy, they are often in long-term relationships with the fat chicks they actually fantasize about) accepted his fate as a shlub who is to be merely tolerated by a woman whose low libido is compatible with his undesirability. Now, in a post-Elliot Rodger world, these men complain about it, blame women for only getting horny from things that make everyone horny (electric guitars), and think they’re owed something.
Cue the men complaining in the comments about how it’s not fair to make every man learn electric guitar— you see how every young zoomer guy who gets b!tches has that wannabe Hall and Oates mustache now? Yeah, replace that mustache with an electric guitar. It was like that once. That mustache does not touch your heart and soul. It does not gather a crowd and transform everyone who comes in contact with it. It’s a solipsistic, commercialized, plastic mustache. Men used to harness the power of Thor and send lightning bolts from their fingers to puppeteer everybody in the vicinity with jolts of electric magick. These new niggas got no heart.
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An ALPHA runs a HAREM of POKEMON girls.
Concluding that excelling at ANY endeavour and leveraging it with simple Game principles will yield unlimited pussy.
Further PROVING you DO NOT have to be a 6'7", hedge fund manager, with a 10inch dick to run a harem of women.
A sexy hobby.
No.
ANY hobby will suffice.
Recalling from the hallowed halls of the Chateau..
XII. Maximize your strengths, minimize your weaknesses
In the betterment of ourselves as men we attract women into our orbit.
To accomplish this gravitational pull as painlessly and efficiently as possible, you must identify your natural talents and shortcomings and parcel your efforts accordingly.
If you are a gifted jokester, don’t waste time and energy trying to raise your status in philosophical debate.
If you write well but dance poorly, don’t kill yourself trying to expand your manly influence on the dancefloor.
Your goal should be to attract women effortlessly, so play to your strengths no matter what they are; there is a groupie for every male endeavor.
Except World of Warcraft.
-Chateau Heartiste
I think it's time people know about SmashStadts, and the harm he is causing to women in the Pokemon Unite community.
docs.google.com/document/d/1…
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Also, I don’t think this should be an excuse to be with women you don’t find attractive without makeup (‘that’s what they all look like bro’). Train yourself to look past makeup and get in touch with what you authentically find attractive, your genes talking to you.
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I think she’s cute but 1) she’s one of my types and 2) I always try to see past the make up so I’m never too surprised or feel fooled when I see girls without. Too many men are completely mesmerised by a woman in lipstick which provokes the extreme negative reaction.
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If you’re not a top 15% chad, you can still have more success than many chads in dating, but you need to play smart and find your angle.
Even in a tough chad-heavy dating market in Australia, I always had girlfriends 2-3 looks points above me. I recall one time I walked into a clothes store with my girl at the time, and the storegirl said “is that your girlfriend?!” “why, yes” I replied, and she said “geez, you’re a lucky boy aren’t you?”
It was quite rude of her tbh, but I was getting these kind of looks and reactions, I was the guy batting out of his league, because I found my angles
This is key, you can’t just join the queue and compete with 10,000 other mfers and expect to get anywhere. In my case:
1. I was a musician that played regular gigs at some popular inner city venues
2. I’m very very good at meeting women in random situations in public (which less than 1% of men are capable of)
3. I understood my target personality types, and who I had the best chances with
4. I had several other funnels I thought of, that most other men didn’t think of
You need to be looking at who you are, thinking outside of the box, finding niche’s and funnels that work for you, this is key to modern dating
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The lesson in here is simple: if you lose your childlike zest for life and willingness to jump, you will end up feeling anxious and empty
Men who follow their heart, regardless of the risks, don't end up in therapy
There is a three year old somewhere right now squatting in a cold puddle with mud up his forearms and snot running into his mouth, screaming at nothing. he will bite his sister in twenty minutes and cry for an hour after because she bit him back. he will lose his favourite toy in some wet grass and grieve it like a death. by nighttime he will have lived more honestly than most grown men manage in thirty years. and somewhere in a clean room with expensive candles and a view of some mountain, a grown adult who paid four thousand to sit on a cushion for a week is begging his own nervous system to produce what that kid got for free by falling face first into a thorn bush
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All I know is that I’ve seen a lot of body builders drunkenly make out with fatties and skinny art boys with hot girlfriends. I don’t know what happens behind closed doors, but that’s the pattern I’ve seen.
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"The key for the man is to adopt a posture of blase emotional distance alternated with loving tenderness. Too much of either and she’ll run off." –Roissy
I would have written this somewhat differently, with more nuance
Here’s my version:
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The key for the man is this:
• You need to be busy and focused chasing your dreams, don’t sacrifice your dreams and put her at the center of your world
• Make sure to have at least one sexy hobby that keeps you in circulation, constantly meeting new people
• When you’re with your girl, be loving and tender
• But if you’re overly needy, overly available and always attentive to her every whim, she will start to lose attraction because she will start to lose respect and admiration for you
• She WILL try to shit test you and pressure you into giving up your own dreams and activities in order for your life to revolve around her 100%
• Don’t fall for this shit test. You need to be able to establish boundaries and hold onto your beliefs
• Also, don’t get resentful when she does this. It’s not her fault. It’s just her feminine programming
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The coolest people are always the weirdest
Everybody who's ever been successful is a weirdo...going against the grain.
I've been weird my whole life, but until I embraced it I was not free.
Weird comes from the old english word wyrd, meaning "having the power to control destiny"
It also means "something supernatural; uncanny"
Own your weird
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If you want to become a great man & live a dynamic life, you need to take big risks
But you need will not simply to take the plunge but to survive the trial with your soul intact. You must keep the faith
If you lack it you will never reach the full potential God promised to you
Every man who did something that looked impossible to the people around him just had will and nothing else. i know this sounds stupid and reductive but ive watched it enough times to stop doubting it. talent matters so much less than people think. intelligence matters less. money matters less. what matters is whether a man can hold one single decision inside himself long enough for it to start changing the things around him
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Every man who did something that looked impossible to the people around him just had will and nothing else. i know this sounds stupid and reductive but ive watched it enough times to stop doubting it. talent matters so much less than people think. intelligence matters less. money matters less. what matters is whether a man can hold one single decision inside himself long enough for it to start changing the things around him
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You can do this for a couple hundred dollars and far better results if you just follow this social recipe:
1. Create an event to invite people to
Could be a picnic where you talk about the bible or a pickle ball meetup or play basketball
It doesn’t really matter just throw some event that you would enjoy going to
2. Invite people you meet out
Now you have a reason to take down numbers and invite people somewhere. It won’t feel so awkward anymore and you actually have a reason to build your network now.
From here you just throw the event and continue to invite more people and it will continue to grow and expand.
3. Throw it on a weekly or twice a month basis
This way it’s something casual people don’t have to worry about missing and can drop in with a little pressure and leave just as easily
You want to design the event to essentially be something that people can check out and stay if they like but I have no pressure to stay if they wanna leave
That way people will come and they will naturally bring their friends including girlfriends will bring their girlfriends and then you just throw it to 100 or so people all while you are being in the leadership position so you look absolutely amazing
And the best part is because it’s doing something you like you’re having a blast anyways
I guarantee you that you would find far better girls with this method than hinge and going on dates
Ask me how I know this works?
Because I have many friends that have done it and I’m about to do it myself.
And here’s the best part you can also use it to just build a community which is my intention
Really what I’m sharing with you above is a community building skill. You choose what you wanna do with that skill. But once you start and lead a community it is hard not to have dating options with the community but more importantly also connections.
Connections are some of your most powerful assets especially when you’re young
Those will grow into your most valuable relationships
This entire process will change your life if you do it
And you’ll never have to download another date again.
God dating apps are sad. Still never used one and never will. Don’t need it. My social skills don’t need to rely on some dating platform that no one actually wants to be on Buttars more afraid of being alone than being with somebody they don’t like.
I have higher standards than that for myself.
I spent $8,700 on first dates after moving to NY a year and a half ago. Here is what I learned.
50 first dates, 10 second dates, 1 girlfriend (we've been together for 4 months now). All from Hinge. An average of $174 per date.
Looking back I could have done a better job at filtering. Goal was always a long term relationship. Best filter was a call before the date (highly recommend that actually). Can save both of you a lot of time. And sets the expectations right.
All women were between 25-32. I'm 30 years old. You can definitely find the love of your life on the apps. I spent most of my time in the office so its very hard for me to meet women irl. I'm also not really a bars/club guy.
I was looking for a very specific person. Similar cultural/religious background. Just get Hinge pro or whatever its called. Makes it easier to filter and gives you a boost.
Kinda hard to say but true. If you are a man below 50% in looks/status or whatever you want to call it you are going to have a hard time. there are just more men than women on the apps (see the report). Set your expectations accordingly.
The height thing is true. I'm 6'1 so it was not a problem for me. But heard this complaint from every single guy under 6 feet.
Also dating is expensive. Especially in NY. Maybe just do drinks or something. I always did dinners and insisted on paying for them (maybe an egyptian thing).
Out of the 50 first dates, I probably liked 20. 10 liked me back. One girl I dated for 3 months but it turned out it was not a long term match. Great girl though!
I was very lucky I guess but I never had an awkward experience (definitely more risky for a girl). Actually had some really interesting conversations even if we both knew this would not be a romantic match.
kinda weird to say but online dating is a funnel. you have to meet people to figure out what you like and what you dont like.
took me around 50 tries to find my current girlfriend. you can see the full report in the tweet below.
