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Consent, relationships, unpaid labor, and the double standards women are expected to accept. Respect and dignity aren’t negotiable.

Joined February 2022
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Wanting intimacy is valid. So is saying no. Earning money matters. So does unpaid work. You can discuss unmet needs, ask for change, or leave a relationship. Another person’s body still belongs to them.
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I fell into a rabbit hole on Friday night when I saw the infamous birthday boy post. I was curious to learn more, and discovered the original post on Reddit, and then I found more. This man is so horrible to his wife it’s no wonder she doesn’t want to have sex with him. He says he loves her, says he wants her, but doesn’t treat her that way.
Replying to @iammaryoliver
The sad thing is, she DID do something for his birthday!!!
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This is the way. If every father taught his son these very important lessons, we could have a healthier society and stronger families in a generation.
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If childcare, cooking, cleaning, and managing everyone’s appointments count as work when you pay someone else to do them, they don’t stop being work when your partner does them for free.
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I spoke with Haley Stevens yesterday. Feeling a bit absurd in pointing out the obvious and being far kinder than I should have been, I reminded her that the outcome of this senate race will be viewed in the light of a future Supreme Court vacancy, and I expressed a hope that all of us understand the stakes. She assured me she's supporting Dr. El-Sayed, sent me a video of a recent speech she gave blasting Mike Rogers and said this: "Still stands. I promise." She also said she's been sending this video to other folks to make it clear where she stands on this race. Again: that was yesterday. I have known Haley Stevens for years. I have counted her as a friend and an ally. We've had many thoughtful conversations about this country, and she has never failed to remind me that her mother is a fan of my writing. Whatever other political differences we have, she has always made it clear to me she would stand with LGBTQ people. It was a red line she refused to cross. Instead, she has made the inexplicable decision to endorse a man who views LGBTQ Americans as second-class citizens unworthy of full equality. I can't help but wonder what her mother must be thinking right now. I have no idea what has happened to the person I thought I knew, but clearly, she has completely taken leave of her senses in endorsing a Republican who is little more than a Trump sycophant -- less than 24 hours after promising me that she has not wavered from the bigger picture. I am disgusted with her cynicism and cowardice in this moment. God forgive me for trusting her. If you're a Michigan voter and as disgusted as I am, get to your polling place and vote for Dr. El-Sayed.
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El-Sayed: You guys love to play the condemn game. I've already been clear that that ad was not made by me, and I do not agree with the contents of that ad. Please ask me questions that are relevant to the voters of the state of Michigan. I'm running to win an election in Michigan.  Most people don't care about this like intrigue stuff that you all love to carry. It is not of concern to the vast majority of Michiganders. People here are struggling to afford their gas. They're struggling to afford their groceries. They're struggling to see a doctor. They really could care less about all this stuff that you all push for clicks
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💙💙💙
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This really is one of the greatest videos the Lincoln Project has produced. In fact, I just have to say it myself… Time's up, MAGA.
Time's up, MAGA. This nightmare ends on Tuesday.
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Brilliant.
Babe wake up the suddenly competitive Democrat in missippi just released a Halloween themed sinners campaign video portraying Cindy Hyde smith as a vampire
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Crazy what can be found on the internet! It’s almost like this guy is desperate to sabotage his marriage and hates and resents his wife and kids and because of that, she doesn’t want to fuck him! I also found the actual OP, which makes his resentment way more obvious.
A lot of men live like this, but nobody calls it abuse.
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Musk has asked us to share more videos on X, so here we go 👇
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At The Hoosier Bar and Grill
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I don't know about you, but I would rather have a President who happens to be Muslim than a man who happens to be a Russian asset, a convicted felon, and a sexual predator.
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Some how MAGA just ignores this.
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I’d rather live next door to an illegal immigrant than a MAGA idiot
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I wonder how many marriages were destroyed by the #manosphere?
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If we were rigging elections, that stupid motherfucker wouldn't be president. You Stupid Motherfuckers.
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