survivor of family court, 7 years with child held hostage by her abuser father

London
Joined March 2009
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No. Women have already done the work of getting ourselves separate toilets. If you want to exclude a subset of adult males from male bathrooms then you can do the work of finding somewhere else for them to go.
Replying to @helenstaniland
Get to work building a third set of bathrooms everywhere then, until you have that there's nothing you can really do. This exact debate was had with gay people too, back in the day. We'll just have to sit around and wait for you guys to find another group to fearmonger against.
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The prospects of a successful review of decisions not to take action against Naomi (for doing her job as a barrister) are on the lowest end of the spectrum between zero & zero. Those affected will not be Naomi but the poor souls at the BSB & some depressingly unfortunate judge.
He never stops. Alex Horwood (aka Lynsay Watson) is so discombobulated and outraged about women having voices, women saying "no" and women having **gasp** thoughts of their own, that his meltdown is that of a toddler. He now thinks he can continue to target Naomi Cunningham. Silly, silly man. @LoudBonnet
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I'm fed up with idiots claiming that men can breastfeed. Men cannot produce enough liquid to sustain a baby, even after taking a cocktail of drugs, so why even try? We know it's purely a sexual fetish with them. They are prepared to exploit an innocent baby for a sexual thrill, while women who breastfeed are very careful about what medications they take.
I'm just in case you're in any doubt, this is the anatomy lesson you missed at medical school.
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Let us know if you have signed either or both petitions & confirm your sex? (over on bluesky, after telling us we must use gender neutral wording, ask us if more women were signing than men 🙄- you could not make it up! )
100%Signed and I am a Woman
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X do your thing!
Replying to @justsay_mother
Let us know if you have signed either or both petitions & confirm your sex? (over on bluesky, after telling us we must use gender neutral wording, ask us if more women were signing than men 🙄- you could not make it up! )
100%Signed and I am a Woman
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Not bad for a little girl who was all alone and in agony on a building site. Just look how big and happy she is now ❤️ (6/6)
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This is Skye today. She plays non stop with her brother and she feels safe in her very own home (5/6)
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Wayne Couzens. David Carrick. Now Mark Tyrrell. All served in the same Met Police command. How can anyone look at this and not question the culture, oversight and accountability within policing? lbc.co.uk/article/met-police…
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Sources inside Afghanistan, A young Afghan woman has reportedly attempted suicide twice after resisting a forced marriage. Despite her suffering, her family continues to insist on the marriage💔 Women needs urgent protection. No girl should be forced to marry against her will.
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“The real sexual revolution is going to be holding abusers accountable.” —KS Prior
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Misogyny must be categorised as a hate crime. DA perpetrators need to be sanctioned. The police and the family court system minimise DA and repeatedly fail survivors. (Let's not forget that DA within the police is disproportionate.)
Domestic abuse is a national emergency. Yet we are losing ground on the ambition to halve VAWG in a decade. I want to see this gripped at the very top of government if we are serious about delivering change for victims and survivors.
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🚨Judge (Ian Lawrie KC) calls a 14-year-old who stabbed a girl ten times with a kitchen knife a “bright lad” and keeps him out of custody because prison is “the last place” for him. This is how boys learn that rejecting them is a crime she will pay for, and he won’t - because that's exactly what happened. 📰🔗telegraph.co.uk/news/2026/10… 📕The System Is The Weapon amzn.eu/d/07VMVF9y
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Replying to @NataliePage
Yes and it seems ok if fathers have abused the mother and never give a dime child support. Even if they want nothing to do with the child except use him or her as a weapon to further abuse the mother. Women need to be empowered not abused further by the system.
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In family court, fathers are granted rights. The right to contact, the right to equal time, the right to be promoted to their children. Mothers are given responsibilities. The responsibility to facilitate contact. The responsibility to protect the children. The responsibility to "promote" him. The responsibility to make it all work or be blamed when it doesn’t. This isn’t a level playing field. 📕Read my book: The System Is The Weapon amzn.eu/d/07VMVF9y
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Isabelle had the most beautiful Autumn photo shoot when she was 5 months old but I think this behind the scenes one was my favourite 😅 judgemental eyebrows back in full force at the photographer 👌💪
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Apparently wanting to feel safe on a first date means lack of confidence
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What I find so nauseating about this clip is how seriously Watson takes herself. The members of the progressive woke supremacist cult seriously believe they are disciples of righteousness; that it’s impossible they could be wrong. And so, with astonishing narcissism, Watson - a mediocre actress not overburdened with insight - portrays herself as bearing an overflowing heart, and carrying terrible burdens of conflicting emotions. Let’s remember what this is about. @jk_rowling has been fighting for sex-based rights that have underpinned safeguarding for decades to be maintained and protected. Watson, meanwhile, has placed the demands of trans-identifying men ahead of her own biological sex, and utterly betrayed Rowling, who has been subjected to horrific abuse and death threats for daring to speak up for women. Yet Watson portrays herself here as a saintly figure who somehow, within her unimpeachable soul, may be able to find it in herself to acknowledge some of the debt she owes to a mentor without whom she’d be nothing. It’s a shame she was ever cast in the Harry Potter movies. Had she been passed over, we wouldn’t now have to endure this painful, self-regarding garbage.
This is painful to watch. You can almost see the cogs moving. An absolutist has realised her original position was built on toxic sand and tries to head for decent solid ground. And fails.
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ARE WE WATCHING BRITAIN’S PAEDOPHILE GROOMING-GANG SCANDAL UNFOLD IN IRELAND — WITH THE VICTIMS BEING CHILDREN IN TUSLA CARE? In an opinion piece in today’s Irish Mail, Brenda Power warns of a shocking child-safety scandal involving vulnerable children in State care being targeted by sexual predators while the authorities responsible for protecting them struggle to keep them safe. Under the headline “Grooming gangs are the real threat, not grannies”, Power focuses on three cases involving teenagers in State care which recently came before High Court judge Mr Justice John Jordan. So concerned was the judge that he directed details to Children Minister Norma Foley, Justice Minister Jim O’Callaghan and Public Expenditure Minister Jack Chambers. One case concerns a 14-year-old girl who, Power writes, was being preyed upon by organised paedophile gangs. The teenager, from a deeply troubled background, reportedly believed the men exploiting her genuinely cared about her. Despite suffering physical symptoms associated with sexual activity with numerous men, the child was unable to recognise herself as a victim. Power argues that this illustrates the sinister nature of grooming: vulnerable children can be manipulated into interpreting exploitation as love and affection. A second teenage girl in Tusla care was also reported as being sexually exploited by a large number of men. The third case concerned a 16-year-old boy involved with an older criminal gang whom he regarded as friends and supporters. Gardaí had seized thousands of euro worth of drugs from him. Power links the cases to the shortage of special-care accommodation. Despite 26 designated beds, only 15 were available. But she argues that the debate must go much further than beds. The fundamental question is: who is sexually exploiting these children and what is being done to identify, investigate and prosecute them? Power draws a disturbing comparison with Britain’s grooming-gang scandals, where vulnerable girls, particularly children in care, were systematically targeted by groups of men. She argues Ireland should learn from what happened there rather than wait for a comparable scandal to become fully exposed here. She cites Irish Mail on Sunday reporting that organised criminal groups are exploiting the State’s inability to keep vulnerable children safe. Perpetrators allegedly contact children online, obtain information about residential care facilities and arrange meetings away from their placements. Power describes children initially being offered attention, affection, money, drugs or alcohol before being passed between perpetrators and subjected to increasingly serious sexual exploitation. What may appear to be children voluntarily meeting adults can instead involve grooming, manipulation and coercion. She strongly rejects any suggestion that children can meaningfully consent to their own exploitation. They must be recognised as victims rather than having their behaviour treated as the problem. Power also questions whether Ireland’s in-camera rule, while essential for protecting children’s privacy, can prevent proper public scrutiny of organised exploitation. Her broader argument is that the State risks concentrating on containing vulnerable children through secure beds and residential placements while insufficient attention is directed towards the adults allegedly exploiting them. Ireland, Power argues, must confront the possibility that organised grooming and sexual exploitation of children in State care is already occurring here. Her central message is stark: the vulnerable children are not the threat from which society needs protection; the adults grooming and exploiting them are.
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‘Sex work is a special hell that men have created for women’. Or ‘The costs of selling your soul to survive: it’s priceless’ By an anonymous prostitution survivor “When I prostituted myself, it was to subsist and survive, not live lavishly. I wasn’t buying extravagant things, or living my best life. I was eating whatever was available at the gas stations at 2am and washing it down with a bottle of cheap vodka; hoping whatever god on this earth would do me the small favour and kill me with alcohol poisoning to release me from the waking hell I was in. I would get close to blackout drunk praying to whatever kind benevolent being would end this nightmare in my sleep. I’d wake up the next morning disappointed I was still alive. I didn’t care about living at that point. Living was just too painful for me. The amount of hurt I was in, the suffering I had to keep quiet on, was too much for me to bear. Yet I could never actively harm myself in the sense of taking it into my own hands. I just wanted to be gone. I was in hell. Pure hell. I can’t speak publicly because no one knows the truth, but at least I can say it here. Sex work is a special hell that men have created for women. It’s not empowerment, not once did I feel empowered. I felt like dying each moment I was still involved. I hated every man involved. I dreamt of strangling them in my sleep. Yes, every man who’s reading this and is watching porn or hiring prostitutes, I hate you. I wished in a just world, you would be taken from society, because whatever person I could’ve been at this point in my life is gone; you’ve killed her, and now here stands her corpse; ridden with all the scars, and imbued with all the pain, shambling lifelessly, pretending that life is normal. I am not the only one, but men like you killed me, in the sense that whatever hopes and dreams are dead, whatever happiness gone, and you did it for the sake of your pleasure. I hate you.”
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