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(it just heavily depends on a DM being willing to play along in dnd compared to other systems)
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Replying to @poetryalpastor
Yeah imo that's a pretty fundamental flaw of dnd, and is why personally I prefer to play a lot of other games that have more explicit options for that kind of thing. (Though, I don't totally agree, player choices both in character and as the player absolutely can tell story)
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Replying to @poetryalpastor
I mean I think I see what you mean that there are often overarching puzzles for them to solve that feel similar to the elements of an escape room, but I do think that in sleeping city does a better job at revolving a lot more around player choice
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Replying to @dykefishron
I mean, I'm not a puppygirl, tbc, but not the point. Ultimately, people don't really exist in archetypes, what matters is noticing patterns of behavior not "kinds of people", and when we confuse one for the other is when shit gets fucked up
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Replying to @poetryalpastor
Imo unsleeping city clears, but I do enjoy fantasy high quite a bit
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im so out of patience for parents or figures of authority "struggling" in any capacity with people around them transitioning. get over yourself! dont wanna watch someone close to you transition? gouge out your eyes!
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Replying to @YURIRETAINER
Thats fucking real as fuuuuuuck I need to be in like 5 places at once sometimes
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It's so sad how in the start of Shuukura Miyagi is like 'Sendai's parents don't mind if she's home late, shows how they trusted her' and not realising they don't even greet her when she comes home. I like how dual POV stories show how little we can truly understand someone
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girl who’s begun to self actualise vs girl who’s been ground down by a world who hates her unconditionally with experience doesn’t necessarily come wisdom
trans woman who figured out she's trans a month ago: I've never been a man! I was always a woman in hiding, I was never a male, that's TERF rhetoric! trans woman who figured it our a decade ago: yeah i was a boy lol it kinda sucked so I jumped ships
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You shouldn't care about IP, lmao
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"t4t is great!" "no! t4c is better! t4t sucks" as is good practice when it comes to people on the internet talking about relationships, mentally replace these vauge groups with "my ex" and everything clicks into place.
T4T is great in theor- let me stop you right there. The last two trans women I dated one used the money I sent her to see me to go see another girl. The second broke up with me because I was going through withdrawal from medication and I didn't deal with her 24/7.
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Replying to @YurPupScarlett
Yeah I just don't think talking about specific bad trans relationships are ever good reasons to generalize about trans relationships 😭
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Right there's no value judgement at all in "immature and self othering" lmfao
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Do you read the things you say when you write them? Do you understand how "we do things differently and that's okay" is directly contradicted by "you do bad weird thing and I don't" lmao. You keep doing this.
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The deep south do be sucking to be a trans woman, my apologies
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Idk, I date several dogs but none of them have any issues with house chores so I think maybe it's best to avoid generalizing specific experiences to broad groups of people
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Lmao girl I don't think that choosing not to take that (pretty substantive) risk and preferring to engage in shared experience and community in your dating life is shutting yourself off from the world or close minded but okay
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I mean yes I would 100% understand that decision from you in not wanting to face that risk
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Replying to @shoegazerjessie
Very cute!
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I mean except that I am absolutely more likely to experience transphobia and transmisogyny from a partner (or person in general) who isn't TMA than I am from one who is
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