Abba’s| Lawyer | LLM | Data Protection and Compliance Analyst|
England, United Kingdom
Joined June 2018
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The last time I drove on the motorway was September when it was still bright at 6pm. I don’t know how I did it last year, as a first time driver I did my driving test 6 months pregnant (passed on 1st attempt) and started driving on the motorway immediately, mind you I was leaving the house and returning home when it was pitch black (November)🙂↕️🙂↕️
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Some of you are lacking community because nothing you do is communal. Nothing you do serves other people.
You don't volunteer.
You don't host. No book clubs.
If you do go to church, you don't serve. You are in and out that thang.
Don't belong to any industry/civic/affinity groups.
No alumni clubs. No Greek Orgs.
No leadership groups.
You don't know your neighbors.
You don't even have a regular coffee shop.
Build your own community.
I see beautiful clothes and want to buy for my baby then i remember she’s yet to wear more than 60% of the ones in her wardrobe. Delay is not denial sha🙂↕️🙂↕️
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And men hardly do this, it’s always women. Women will give up life changing opportunities because “my man” didn’t want me to do it, sometimes men they aren’t even married to (not like being married makes it acceptable). I just hope you people are using your heads.
Long rant def
I’m always wary of people who don’t seem to have boundaries when it comes to their personal lives and ambitions.
Like, how can somebody tell you not to pursue your master’s degree and you actually agree because you’re in love? Or you give someone the money you’ve put aside for your tuition when you need that money yourself?
I’m not even talking about relationships alone.
I think everybody should have certain lines that people cannot cross, regardless of how much you love them, how much you trust them or how close you are.
There should be things you are simply not willing to compromise on. Your education, your health, your relationship with God, your personal development, your financial security, your ambitions.
I know there are nuances to these things. (okay to disagree).
That you are so accommodating that anybody can talk you out of something important to your future or convince you to give up something you genuinely need. Whew!
You should have things that are simply not up for negotiation.
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