Pedro retweeted
O argumento de que "tem criança assistindo" nesse print é a maior lorota que um conservador pode falar e desmorona fácil.
Primeiro pela seletividade gigante: a TV aberta sempre entupiu o horário nobre de casais heterossexuais se pegando, traindo e transando na sala da família, e esses conservadores nunca deram um piado sobre as crianças. O escândalo moral e o freio de mão só surgem quando o afeto é queer.
Segundo que para isso existe classificação indicativa e controle parental; usar criança como escudo retórico é pura desculpa para moralismo e para apagar representatividade.
Por fim, as crianças de hoje crescem num mundo plural, e o que realmente ensina preconceito e intolerância não é ver duas pessoas se amando na tela, mas sim a hipocrisia de comentários como o desse print.
#Malipe #Quemamacuida – at Guarujá, Brasil
Reacionário não consome arte, ou quando consome, quer ela estéril e subjugada a uma visão de mundo bem específica, muitas vezes hipócrita. Quando não é, eles choram e sempre vão chorar. O erro foi levar a sério o choro dessa turma. #Malipe
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Pedro retweeted
Straights and gays benefit eachother as friends.
Straights find in their gay friends an escape from boredom and conformity.
Gays offer novelty and creativity.
Gays find in their straight friends an escape from aimlessnes and transience.
Straights offer roots and stability.
Each life is more prone to a different kind of excess.
Straight hell looks like a white picket fence that suffocates you and removes individuality.
Gay hell looks like freedom, where no obligations leave you with no deeper meaning.
But each life is also prone to its own advantages, and can complement each other.
Straights can act as a refuge for their gay friends exhausted by endless stimulation.
Gays can act as a spark for straight friends dulled by monotony.
Perhaps we’ll never live quite the same life, but we do well to learn from each other.
All of this discourse on Jensen's affair has me doubled down on non-monogamy. Reality doesn't care about your romantic fantasies.
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This is well said. The reason I said infidelity is always the fault of both parties is that, after a decade of coaching clients, thousands of couples I spoke with complained about the same main issues:
Women reach menopause and no longer want sex, or even younger women who get their ring and security and stop having interest in sex.
It’s a well-known statistic that women in long-term relationships have less interest in sex. It’s not fair.
I know of so many couples that had sex only 1–2 times a year! And when the man cheats, he is labeled the worst.
I think a man who has sex withdrawn from the marriage has the right to cheat. You don’t always want to go through a painful divorce and years of battle.
You might as well enjoy sex elsewhere and still be a good companion or a “roommate” for your partner.
There were also cases when the man lost interest in his wife, but that was extremely rare.
A wife doesn’t get to decide, quietly and unilaterally, that the sexual marriage is over while expecting every other part of the arrangement to continue indefinitely without discussion.
She doesn’t get to turn her husband into a roommate, provider, co-parent, handyman, emotional support system, social escort, family representative, and faithful companion while treating his desire for his own wife as some embarrassing character flaw he needs to outgrow.
Pedro retweeted
This piece is for men. Every time I write about how men systemically abuse women, my DMs explode with “Not All Men” complaints.
But a new study goes one step further, and demonstrates that empirically, statistically, and factually, it literally is all men. And the data is horrifying. qasimrashid.com/p/russell-br…
So funny that people skills for him doesn’t account for racism lol
The age of agents is going to be amazing for most programmers, but it'll be hard times for the cantankerous ones.
Specialized knowledge and rare skills will no longer offer immunity for those who are a pain to work with.
Best learn some basic people skills.
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