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If you interpret my words in bad faith, that’s on you, not on me.

Joined January 2022
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FUB free. ‘Cause I’m here to rant a lot and be a heavy retweeter, usually.
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Kok I find the assumption that we will fall in love with opposite gender just because they're our 'type' itu very disturbing ya.. kesannya kayak what stopped this kind of relationship is simply because they're not our type, and not or own boundaries.
Bisa. Kuncinya bukan tipenya masing2.
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Fetish orang Indonesia yang sering gw temuin: - Masokisme - Sadisme - Stockholm syndrome - Sange ama aparat - Teriak "Indonesia baik2 saja" sambil digangbang aparat - Dibilang "good boy" ama penguasa yang memanfaatkan mereka - Didominasi aki2 kriminal dommy chubby daddy
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What people should understand is that it's impossible for a good person to not do anything bad. Who important is that you acknowledge it. So if you think you are a good person that's completely fine. Just make sure you judge yourself the same way as you do others.
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They judge themselves by their intent.If I am late that's because I was stuck in traffic but if someone is late that's because they don't have time sense.They are so busy defending the kind of person that they think they are that they don't even question their own actions(2/n)
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The worst person that you know probably thinks they are a good person and I'll tell you why. There is something called moral superiority that most people carry with them. The biggest problem with these people is that they judge everyone else around them by their actions. (1/n)
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If you are wondering as to why a lot of queer people don't want to fight alongside homophobics, etc., the answer seems very simple to me: They think that even when they win, they will end up getting persecuted in the end. What is the point of replacing one's government when they're going to end up arrested & discriminated in the end? You may argue that the price will be lower in the end, and all sorts of other benefits, but that is pointless for people whose existence isn't even recognized Let me give you a simple analogy: Imagine you are a Chinese person, and you are told to ally with a person who says "Chinese people should be arrested and killed!!". You decide to ally with that person... And then you win. That person then proceeds to stab you anyway. What is the point of such victory from your perspective? It's a no-victory, and you're justified in worrying about it, unless if you're actually planning to stab first, which is difficult since you're not the majority
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The moment people begin examining the structures behind their suffering, the conversation changes from personal failure to collective responsibility.
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I don’t like when people turn weirdo over things that could have been solved by a simple conversation… now I don’t respect you and we’ll never speak again.
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It’s so funny to me when you see a bitch talking about herself😭 like bitch that’s you, you do that 😂😂
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Some of you are too grown and financially independent to still be putting men on a pedestal like that. You haven't demystified men, even when you think so little of them.
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selama kenal org aku gk pernah tertarik atau berani nanya lebih tentang org itu kecuali orgnya sendiri yg cerita, aku paham bgt kadang ada bbrpa org yg gak nyaman ditanya² gtu begitupun aku sendiri, makannya aku gk lakuin itu ke org lain juga🙌🏻
Temenan tapi gue gak tau dia kuliah apa jurusan apa atau kerja apa, gak mau cari tau juga selama dia gak cerita sendiri, ketemu ya bahas hobi aja 😭 Bisa kok ngobrol tanpa bahas pendidikan/kerja, yuk bisa
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Replying to @twiceasmanypigs
I feel so sad whenever I encounter this bcs it just shows that ppl’s imagination of a better world is so limited…they would take anything that is slightly better than this krn mereka ga kebayang bahwa kita bisa bikin cita2 politik yg ngebebasin semua org, asal usahanya tepat
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Malah as leftists we need to be more annoying with each other to improve even further. I think the tendency of right wing politics is of "unquestionable conviction" which causes any kind of criticism and questions to be seen as threat, as a "division"
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Penting adanya kita ga cuma mentingin siapa yg paling kuat dari sisi jumlah, krn kalo rezim beneran berhasil digulingkan, gmn cara supaya sisi yg menggulingkan itu ga mengulang kesalahan rezim? Ga usah malu kalo ditegur krn salah, tinggal terima kamu salah n learn to be better
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Criticizing each other EVEN when youre on the same side is necessary to train n improve pemikiran masing2, ga cuma menang angka doang. Kubu kanan cuma terlihat kompak krn udh jelas bgt we see the evidence everyday that mereka ngikut2 tokoh2 yg paling dominan tanpa mikir
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"Genz dipecahkan dgn homofobia" is so nothingburger bc leftists get annoyed by leftists all the time, theres always sth among leftists to be discussed n argued abt. Centrists n liberals mewek dikit tiap ditegur, "kalo gini gmn mau maju" ya berarti lu-nya aja emg ga ada niat mikir
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ion respect when bitches be feeling like shit can't happen to them, them tables turn faster then mf watch what you say
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gila qrt nya menunjukkan bahwa buanyak laki-laki yg tidak kompeten malah 'berkeluarga'💀 rasa nyaman adalah jebakan sih kalo kata gw alias udah jd tanggung jawab yg mengambil pilihan untuk menikah dan jadi kepala rumah tangga
bokap gw early 2010an gajinya hampir 3 digit tapi memilih resign tanpa backup, gue dan adik masih SD waktu itu. alasan bokap resign karena gak kuat di kerjaan yg udah dia gelutin selama belasan tahun. setelahnya? nyokap yg luntang lantung ngidupin gue dan adek. bokap? santai —
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Compatibility refers to values and goals and certain preferences, though. Some of those things you can't negotiate just because you have chemistry with someone. There are definitely people out there who you can share chemistry with and be more compatible with without-
i think no-one is really compatible, both platonically or romantically. i think you choose the people by your side and you make constant efforts and learn how to love them and cherish them and i think that's so much more beautiful than just fate or compatibility
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