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Kok I find the assumption that we will fall in love with opposite gender just because they're our 'type' itu very disturbing ya.. kesannya kayak what stopped this kind of relationship is simply because they're not our type, and not or own boundaries.
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Fetish orang Indonesia yang sering gw temuin:
- Masokisme
- Sadisme
- Stockholm syndrome
- Sange ama aparat
- Teriak "Indonesia baik2 saja" sambil digangbang aparat
- Dibilang "good boy" ama penguasa yang memanfaatkan mereka
- Didominasi aki2 kriminal dommy chubby daddy
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What people should understand is that it's impossible for a good person to not do anything bad. Who important is that you acknowledge it. So if you think you are a good person that's completely fine. Just make sure you judge yourself the same way as you do others.
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They judge themselves by their intent.If I am late that's because I was stuck in traffic but if someone is late that's because they don't have time sense.They are so busy defending the kind of person that they think they are that they don't even question their own actions(2/n)
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The worst person that you know probably thinks they are a good person and I'll tell you why. There is something called moral superiority that most people carry with them. The biggest problem with these people is that they judge everyone else around them by their actions. (1/n)
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If you are wondering as to why a lot of queer people don't want to fight alongside homophobics, etc., the answer seems very simple to me: They think that even when they win, they will end up getting persecuted in the end. What is the point of replacing one's government when they're going to end up arrested & discriminated in the end? You may argue that the price will be lower in the end, and all sorts of other benefits, but that is pointless for people whose existence isn't even recognized
Let me give you a simple analogy: Imagine you are a Chinese person, and you are told to ally with a person who says "Chinese people should be arrested and killed!!". You decide to ally with that person... And then you win. That person then proceeds to stab you anyway. What is the point of such victory from your perspective? It's a no-victory, and you're justified in worrying about it, unless if you're actually planning to stab first, which is difficult since you're not the majority
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The moment people begin examining the structures behind their suffering, the conversation changes from personal failure to collective responsibility.
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I donβt like when people turn weirdo over things that could have been solved by a simple conversationβ¦ now I donβt respect you and weβll never speak again.
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selama kenal org aku gk pernah tertarik atau berani nanya lebih tentang org itu kecuali orgnya sendiri yg cerita, aku paham bgt kadang ada bbrpa org yg gak nyaman ditanyaΒ² gtu begitupun aku sendiri, makannya aku gk lakuin itu ke org lain jugaππ»
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I feel so sad whenever I encounter this bcs it just shows that pplβs imagination of a better world is so limitedβ¦they would take anything that is slightly better than this krn mereka ga kebayang bahwa kita bisa bikin cita2 politik yg ngebebasin semua org, asal usahanya tepat
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Malah as leftists we need to be more annoying with each other to improve even further. I think the tendency of right wing politics is of "unquestionable conviction" which causes any kind of criticism and questions to be seen as threat, as a "division"
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Penting adanya kita ga cuma mentingin siapa yg paling kuat dari sisi jumlah, krn kalo rezim beneran berhasil digulingkan, gmn cara supaya sisi yg menggulingkan itu ga mengulang kesalahan rezim? Ga usah malu kalo ditegur krn salah, tinggal terima kamu salah n learn to be better
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Criticizing each other EVEN when youre on the same side is necessary to train n improve pemikiran masing2, ga cuma menang angka doang. Kubu kanan cuma terlihat kompak krn udh jelas bgt we see the evidence everyday that mereka ngikut2 tokoh2 yg paling dominan tanpa mikir
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"Genz dipecahkan dgn homofobia" is so nothingburger bc leftists get annoyed by leftists all the time, theres always sth among leftists to be discussed n argued abt. Centrists n liberals mewek dikit tiap ditegur, "kalo gini gmn mau maju" ya berarti lu-nya aja emg ga ada niat mikir
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gila qrt nya menunjukkan bahwa buanyak laki-laki yg tidak kompeten malah 'berkeluarga'π rasa nyaman adalah jebakan sih kalo kata gw alias udah jd tanggung jawab yg mengambil pilihan untuk menikah dan jadi kepala rumah tangga
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Compatibility refers to values and goals and certain preferences, though. Some of those things you can't negotiate just because you have chemistry with someone. There are definitely people out there who you can share chemistry with and be more compatible with without-
