Author (crime fiction + 8 non-fiction books). Runs workshops on domestic abuse, false allegations & parental alienation.
United Kingdom
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Pre-order is open.
The Last Silence is on Kindle pre-order now, out 19 November, International Men's Day. Paperback by launch day.
Pre-orders count towards the book's Amazon ranking, which is how it reaches the men who need it. Link in bio or amzn.eu/d/04TllVI3
Thank you for being here for this one.
If you're struggling, Samaritans are on 116 123, free, any time.
#TheLastSilence #PreOrder #NewBook #MensMentalHealth #SuicidePrevention #BookstagramUK
"That never happened." "You're too sensitive." "You're crazy."
Gaslighting makes you doubt your own mind. That's the point. If you've heard these, you're not imagining it.
Built To Be Broken explains why empaths are targeted by abusers, and how to heal.
Link: amazon.co.uk/dp/B0GZMY9HD6
#Gaslighting #NarcissisticAbuse #NarcissisticAbuseRecovery #EmotionalAbuse #TrustYourself #Empath #Healing
An angry message lands. Your thumb's already typing.
Before: "That's not what happened and you know it."
After: "Thanks for letting me know. They'll be ready at 5pm on Saturday."
Short, factual, about the children. Nothing else. Calm Contact has templates for exactly this.
"Calm Contact" → payhip.com/b/lrBJe
The clocks go back tonight.
For a lot of men, the long dark evenings are the hardest part of the year. Especially the ones going through a separation or a court case, or looking at Christmas without their kids.
Send one message this weekend. "Thinking of you. Fancy a walk?" That's all it takes.
Samaritans: 116 123, free, any time.
#MensMentalHealth #CheckInOnYourMates #TheLastSilence
His ex sent him around 500 abusive messages, targeted his new partner, then gave Crimestoppers a false tip so police would stop him.
She was a police inspector.
The full case: jaredwhitaker.com/post/she-u…
Jared Whitaker retweeted
Partner Abuse: Men can be victims, too.
Domestic violence doesn’t discriminate, but support services often do.
Equality means recognizing all victims.
@menandboysnet
@jaredwauthor
@DavidMaywald
@VetFather_Bill
@Marquis8675309
#GenderEqualityForMen #MensEqualityMonth #PartnerAbuse #MenToo
Save this. Share it. It might be the post someone needs.
You don't have to explain everything. You can just say:
I'm not okay right now. That's enough to start.
Samaritans: 116 123, free, any time
CALM: 0800 58 58 58, 5pm to midnight
Shout: text SHOUT to 85258
NHS 111: mental health option (England)
999 if a life is at risk right now
#MensMentalHealth #SuicidePrevention #ItsOkayToTalk #MentalHealthSupport #TheLastSilence
"Men don't ask for help."
I did. Again and again.
58% of male domestic abuse victims in one SafeLives survey got no help at all.
Maybe the question isn't why men don't ask. It's what happens when they do.
It's finished. The Last Silence is locked and early copies go out to readers today.
Out 19 November.
The Last Silence looks at four experiences that push men to the edge:
-Domestic abuse
-False allegations
-Family court
-Parental alienation
In each one, the system was meant to help and too often didn't.
Out 19 November. Samaritans: 116 123.
Last few hours to get all courses half price 👇🏻
Today only: all three of my courses for £24.50, half price, with my two toolkits free.
Abuse, false allegations and narcissism, 62 lessons, yours for life. Ends midnight.
payhip.com/b/4wori
Jared Whitaker retweeted
New Raw & Unfiltered.
Kirsty and Marsha from @JIMSOfficial on false allegations, fair trials, and the question nobody’s answering: what happens to past convictions now the Supreme Court has spoken?
youtu.be/7j-OStqbyps
#RawAndUnfiltered #FalseAllegations
Today only: all three of my courses for £24.50, half price, with my two toolkits free.
Abuse, false allegations and narcissism, 62 lessons, yours for life. Ends midnight.
payhip.com/b/4wori
Last day. 50% off my digital shop ends tonight.
Men in crisis don't need more sympathy. They need information, structure and someone who's been there. That's what these courses, toolkits and journals are for.
Tonight is the last night at half price.
payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuth…
#LeaveNoManBehind #MaleVictims #DomesticAbuse #Safeguarding #FalseAllegations #Advocacy
"Why didn't you just leave?"
Every survivor gets asked it. Almost none of us have an answer people understand.
So I wrote one.
The book → jaredwhitaker.com/books
#DomesticAbuseAwareness #CoerciveControl
Jared Whitaker retweeted
50% off everything in my digital shop until Monday.
Courses, bundles, toolkits and journals. Prices start at £3, and the glossary is free. Swipe through to see what’s in.
payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuth…
#DomesticAbuseAwareness #MaleVictims #CoParenting #FalseAllegations #Advocacy
50% off everything in my digital shop until Monday.
Courses, bundles, toolkits and journals. Prices start at £3, and the glossary is free. Swipe through to see what’s in.
payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuth…
#DomesticAbuseAwareness #MaleVictims #CoParenting #FalseAllegations #Advocacy
50% off for the weekend 👇🏻👇🏻
Everything in my digital shop is 50% off until Monday.
If you’ve been meaning to learn this properly, this is the cheapest it will be:
→ Domestic Abuse Against Men: The Complete Course, £14.50
→ Understanding False Allegations: The Complete Course, £14.50
→ Understanding Narcissism: The Complete Course, £14.50
→ Abuse and Allegations: The Course Bundle, £19.50
→ Abuse, Allegations and Narcissism: The Complete Course Bundle, £24.50
→ Calm Contact: The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Toolkit, £4.00
→ For My Children: Letters and Memories Kept Until We Meet Again, £4.00
→ The Record: Personal Journal and Log, £3.00
There’s also a free plain-English glossary, The Language of Abuse, if you want somewhere to start.
All here: payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuth…
Everything in my digital shop is 50% off until Monday.
If you’ve been meaning to learn this properly, this is the cheapest it will be:
→ Domestic Abuse Against Men: The Complete Course, £14.50
→ Understanding False Allegations: The Complete Course, £14.50
→ Understanding Narcissism: The Complete Course, £14.50
→ Abuse and Allegations: The Course Bundle, £19.50
→ Abuse, Allegations and Narcissism: The Complete Course Bundle, £24.50
→ Calm Contact: The High-Conflict Co-Parenting Toolkit, £4.00
→ For My Children: Letters and Memories Kept Until We Meet Again, £4.00
→ The Record: Personal Journal and Log, £3.00
There’s also a free plain-English glossary, The Language of Abuse, if you want somewhere to start.
All here: payhip.com/JaredWhitakerAuth…
New Raw & Unfiltered.
Kirsty and Marsha from @JIMSOfficial on false allegations, fair trials, and the question nobody’s answering: what happens to past convictions now the Supreme Court has spoken?
youtu.be/7j-OStqbyps
#RawAndUnfiltered #FalseAllegations