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I just got a DM that said the My Dead Lover's Cat video is "both alarming and vomit-inducing." Maybe they watched another video? Or maybe they're tweeting from 1956? youtube.com/watch?v=8RfTxZ3E…

Every time I write "hey don't compare the death of someone's human spouse to the death of your pet" I always always always get ANGRY pushback. And I suspect, the angrier someone is, the more emails they have sent that started "you know when I lost fluffy..."

A troll's attempted shade: "You're a failure at being a man and a failure at being a woman." Huh? Yes, and that's kind of the point. Yes, and you just affirmed your belief in nonbinary identities. In related news, you know who doesn't like be "yes, and"-ed? Twitter trolls.

A troll: you don’t exist there’s no such thing as non-binary. Also a troll: why don’t you look like a man or a woman. It’s like you’re something in between. Pick a side and go with it please, trollers of the world. Otherwise it gets confusing.

Dear Queers I Met In My 20s: I apologize for acting like my queer generation invented polyamory, drugs and gender.

Young queer: Your generation isn't REALLY polyamorous. Not really. Me: Um, well my girlfriend has a proper ass cisgender heterosexual husband and we all go on vacation together so.....

Tiktok: we don’t know you’re trying to be two people. Differentiate please! Love, The Non Detail Oriented People

My Glad Dead Dad essay on ( on Huffpost personal via @huffpostqueer) was included in this week's list!

If you haven't seen my John Denver parody song about being nonbinary on @AskTSA, here it is (now with more lego minifigs) bit.ly/transphobicsecurityau…

It’s our 12th anniversary show!