Mr Stuff

So there's this czn of mine he is 4 years older then me . He was in a rls with a girl for 5 years but that girl just couldn't took stand for him Infront of his family lol he sended rishta. Now I am that girl I can fight anyone for the man I like Me and my bf got into fight and blocked each other again(we have very toxic cycle and I don't know if we get together or not). My czn asked me about him when I was blocked. He says that the guy I like is playing with me or he is just passing his time I was like kind of sad that idk man my gut feeling do not say that he was passing time with me but kahir. Ps: we used to be in contact like we know each other from childhood so u can say we know each other he is kind of mature guy he says. And I do agree he is mature then my ex but everything is so weird After 2 days of continuously talking to him, he asked me what my bf gifted me for my bday, my czn gifted me chocolates when we were young on my bday even when there were family fights between us. So he asked me what did he gave. I told him the scenario that he didn't (it is another long story but he wasn't a evil guy or someone like that😭 my bf asked me for gift on his bday and I didn't gave him bcz I had no money and we were in long distance, so this has misunderstandings between us he thought I don't like him . And eventually we blocked each other again but got back together cleared the misunderstandings and I said to him ke koi BAAT Nahi next time dekheinge) My czn said that I am the only guy who gifted u gift. It was weird but I ignored him then he asked me for his pic, then man HE STARTED TO COMPARING HIMSELF TO HIM , and said that we both didn't even look good together, now my ex is 6'2 he is taller then my czn and my czn is 6 and in our family uski height ki sab Bohat tarref krte. Etc, he started comparing himself to my ex , like har leehaz sai. Even body. And looks also. He said you are preeyu Uske saat achi Nahi lagoge.. Usse pehle he said me to find a mature man, emotional stable, he says that I need a man, (and he calls himself mature etc) Like is he into me or I am overthinking like Pehle when he was saying me that my ex was playing with me and he never liked me etc it was normal but now it all makes sense or am I overthinking it? Ps: he calls me his sister since childhood and I am not into him like I did respected him but Sare respect utar Gaye idk . Tldr: my czn (who I see him as bhara Bhai hamesha sai and he used to do, is comparing himself with my ex and acting that he is better then him) Is he into me?

My boyfriend is more of a listener than a talker, while I'm the one who usually talks more. But lately, even I've run out of things to talk about. 😭 After the usual questions like "Have you eaten?", "How was your day?" and "How are you feeling?", I genuinely don't know what else to talk about. I want our conversations to be more interesting, fun and meaningful. I want us to have random conversations, share stories, laugh together and get to know each other even better. So, couples, what do you usually talk about? How do you keep your relationship interesting and avoid running out of things to say? I'd love some genuine advice!

Social media used to be about sharing your life, opinions, humor, and creativity. Now it feels like every platform is slowly turning into soft porn. Open Instagram, TikTok, or X, and somehow half your feed is designed to grab your attention through sexualized content. Everything is becoming more revealing, more suggestive, and more provocative just to get clicks, likes, and followers. The disturbing part isn't that this content exists. It's that it's becoming so normalized that people barely question it anymore. We've gone from sharing our lives online to selling attention with our bodies.