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"Every action you take is a vote about how you want your whole life to be" is such a powerful frame. Can apply it to everything from substance abuse to participating in Internet gender discourse with anonymous mentally ill 20-year-olds
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tfw you see a post intended to warn people about others but you just feel called out instead
Condescension is often the tone of the ignorant attempting to educate those they disdain but do not understand, and so the exercise is more often one of self-aggrandisement and tribal signalling, than it is of genuine mentorship. When someone purports to be teaching or otherwise bestowing some level of wisdom upon you, all you need ask yourself is “does this person really understand me?” Can you, being humble and radically honest with yourself, see yourself in what they say? And if you cannot, because they have not demonstrated that they do, then it is safe to assume they are not speaking from empathy, but self-righteous elitism.
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Did you know you can promote tweets?
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lol I didn't realize I could find social embarrassment merely unpleasant. I found it catastrophic and thought I had to make myself totally immune. The answer all along was to allow it to just suck.
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Guy who trains intensively as a method actor so he can sustainably commit to the "unfit to stand trial" bit when he does crimes
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You can often tell entirely by the tone of the first few sentences of a Wikipedia article if the article is going to be information or propaganda. When the editors have a chip on their shoulder they are not subtle about it.
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Replying to @BoringBiz_
It should not be an economic goal for house prices to keep going up. Housing prices should be kept low as a consumption good, not an investment.
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Every ethical system not explicitly about duty will sooner or later become about shrimp welfare.
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Replying to @theNOBSdentist
My wife use to work on a loan securitization team for a large hedge fund. The amount of leverage in the economy is beyond your wildest imagination. Debt on debt, on debt, on debt...
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Daughter age 5 is repulsed by underdog stories, she thinks the most powerful should win even if he’s “the bad guy”, is this developmental or her personality
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The new Mac OS suggests filenames for new text documents as I type in the default text editor, putting them in the header bar before I even attempt to save. This feels weirdly invasive.
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Apparently this is a Finder setting not a system or text editor setting but there is a setting where you can turn it off
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What if I told you there is no Approved List Of Things You're Allowed To Be Angry About
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"I am bothered by something my spouse/bf/gf did but it's not on the List guess I gotta keep it to myself and let it simmer"
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"I have a Good And Healthy And Happy Life I also Scratch My Balls at least one per day. I will be interviewing on the following podcasts about the benefits of Ball Scratching"
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Omelas kid whose suffering supports another kid whose positive valence is the same absolute value as the Omelas kid's negative, plus an infinitesimal addition.
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Do late-teens still sell themselves (and somebody else) out for the imaginary status of having "in a relationship with" as their FB status or was that purely a millennial dysfunction when FB was new
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