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Joined February 2022
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Replying to @cupboardkitty
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not to mention ive blocked op and they keep screenshotting my tweets to respond. i unfortunately think they are just kinda immature but i do hope they have some better and safer experiences at bdsm clubs because no good club would let someone in for study purposes
Replying to @rob_cold
i do think op in this situation vastly miscommunicated what happened, so i think had they tried to correct themselves without being a major fucking moron it wouldn't have been as big of deal
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the whole discourse about asexual in bdsm is no excuse to be homophobic but oh my god when 90% revolves around "yeah the thing that is rooted in sexual activity isn't actually sexual" im gonna call you stupid!
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"these people hate me because im ace" and not literally any logical reason which is they withdrew consent. YOU are the problem. i know with my own experiences in bdsm i would not be cool if someone was in there going "yeah im here for anthropology" bro get out
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i do think op in this situation vastly miscommunicated what happened, so i think had they tried to correct themselves without being a major fucking moron it wouldn't have been as big of deal
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some people with BPD love pulling the “i’ll just kill myself” card all the time and then wonder why people call them manipulative
Replying to @voidpires
Sorry your BPD friend in crisis made you feel icky. Sorry they’re in crisis so often. I’m sorry it’s sooooo burdensome to YOU. BPD is a disorder so severe there are places that recommend assisted suicide as the only treatment. Suck it up.
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BTW this guy has been on the Supreme Court for 35 years and is one of the nine people who have the final say on what laws get passed in America. He's opposed gay rights every single time same sex marriage bills came to the supreme court.
Black people have virtually no power to institutionalize homophobia, white people do. This includes white queers, who have often weaponized their whiteness at the disservice of the broader queer community and other marginalized groups.
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Being gay is punished by the death penalty in multiple black majority countries such as Somalia, Uganda, and South Sudan. In the US Clarence Thomas, a black Supreme Court Judge, consistently votes down LGBTQ rights. Conversely, Judge Ketanji Brown Jackson votes in favor. en.wikipedia.org/wiki/LGBTQ_rig… epgn.com/2023/05/10/ana…
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people infantilizing bpd needs to be studied. like yeah obviously bro but why do you think i just need to be okay with being treated like shit because someone else hasn't gotten the proper help?
Replying to @Anthony75678667
The inability to emotionally regulate is in the fuckin diagnostic criteria for the disorder, they cannot do it entirely on their own.
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why are asexuals so obsessed with sex and being involved in it, talking about it, 'observing' it 'anthropologically'. why are all of yall like this istg. constantly consuming porn rotted shows bumping that cancerous ass dirty bird song 🚶‍♂️🚶‍♂️
Can somebody explain: A) Why asexuals should inherently be banned from BDSM events? B) What a tv show has to do with belonging to a community for over a decade?
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people dont owe you shit, even if you have BPD. i learned that the hard way a few years ago and thank god it happened because now i have the tools to regulate myself and prevent these type of crisis
The way people call this manipulative or evil is actually pretty triggering. Like okay maybe he should have distanced himself from these people. But also i can see his perspective here. Idk man, if you ghost someone with BPD and make them spiral you're a piece of shit.
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girl who doesn't want to have sex is uninvited from the "have sex" club and is mad
Is it me or does "it's not YOURS, invitation or no" come off a aphobic? I'm scratching my head trying to figure out why else I, personally, should not be allowed to join my friends at a BDSM event when they invite me.
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the "choices" that transsexuals are given - transition and live - die
very telling that u refuse to understand that transitioning is a CHOICE that you again have the right to make once you've weighted the pros and cons there is no choice for black people were simply black and have to deal with whatever racism that comes with it
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we're at a point it's extremely clear this person is a TERF or just transphobic for the love of the game. stop baiting the bait account y'all.
Replying to @burnthelilacs
That's not what we're saying at all all we're saying is there are some points in time that you could not be read as trans. It isn't a visible immediate from conception trait like being black. Racism is inescapable and not directly analagous to transphobia or homophobia
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once again
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once again a man's personal comfort come before anyone else. putting the blame on people who clearly are done with this behavior and not the guy doing it...
The way people call this manipulative or evil is actually pretty triggering. Like okay maybe he should have distanced himself from these people. But also i can see his perspective here. Idk man, if you ghost someone with BPD and make them spiral you're a piece of shit.
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if you were placed inside a room with a moldy orange and you could only leave when someone inside the room formed a complete thought your first action would be to start begging on your knees for the orange to start thinking
yes you can. you were not born with a binder carabiner and cuffed jeans you can take that shit off. you cannot be phenotypically queer. theres no amount of dressing or undressing that would change how black i look i dont understand what you dont understand.
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people are too comfortable being miserable online
person that should definitely be a therapist
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mf acting like trans people don't exist
yes you can. you were not born with a binder carabiner and cuffed jeans you can take that shit off. you cannot be phenotypically queer. theres no amount of dressing or undressing that would change how black i look i dont understand what you dont understand.
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okay this is crazy i'm sorry like thinking a lesbian's support for trans women is only truly valid if they're willing to have sex with someone who has a penis is just super weird
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this is why i think minors shouldn't be allowed on the internet
Do NOT tell me to go to the hospital I HATE THE HOSPITAL ESPECIALY YHE EMERGENCY ROOM!!!! ER nurses are basically trained to hurt you on purpose and treat u like an animal I HATE going to the hospital I’ve never had a positive experience in one even once
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