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Come you de craze?😭😂😂
I have this male customer that’s always buying from me. If I tell him business is slow, he’ll patronize me to the point of buying for his friends sef. 😭😂
The problem is that he’s married, and since last year, he’s been hammering on me to come and visit him. The harassment is getting too much, but I can’t block him because he’s a very good customer and he doesn’t even price market. 😭😭😭
What do I do like this? Because business is business, but this man is not letting me rest. 😂😭
Some women find it really hard to take rejection fr
You walked up to me and you were trying to strike a conversation, I said I’m not interested in talking to you, You insisted, I said “I don’t want to be rude, I don’t want to have any conversation with you”
The next thing,
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Some men find it really hard to take rejection fr
You walked up to me and you were trying to strike a conversation, I said I’m not interested in talking to you, You insisted, I said “I don’t want to be rude, I don’t want to have any conversation with you”
The next thing, you are telling me is “ehn be going now, with your big forehead”
The forehead you saw before approaching me o oloshi 😭
Wetin concern davido with mound case again omoh ehn
This damage control of lost battle way vdm wan run ehn
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There’s an interesting gap in your psychological interpretation. VDM didn’t need Davido’s friendship to criticise him. A man whose public identity thrives on confrontation can throw stones from outside the gate just as easily as from inside the compound.
Davido’s accommodating personality predates VDM. Perhaps he enjoys validation, perhaps his generosity feeds his ego, or perhaps he genuinely enjoys connecting with people. Why must his openness be interpreted as an inability to tolerate rejection?
And there’s something revealing about analysing someone’s insecurity only to conclude that he deserves humiliation. Sometimes our existing perception of someone influences the psychology we attribute to them.
An open door may bring trouble closer, but a closed door doesn’t guarantee peace.
On Davido & VDM. I have my thoughts together now.
It's no longer news that Davido, despite being one of the biggest superstars out of Africa somehow knows how to bring ant-infested rotting wood into his house.
A lot of you attribute it to "humility" but it really isn't - it is a psychological pattern I'll call maladaptive approval seeking disorder. It is the kleptomaniac version of validation hunting.
You know how kleptomaniacs are wired - it doesn't matter how much they are fed, how much wealth they're born into, how much of money they have access to - they NEED to steal to satisfy an urge.
That's how people with maladaptive approval seeking disorders behave.
It doesn't matter how many people cheer them up, the strength of their fanbase, how much love they get - they never seem to run out of the thirst for validation even if its from nonentities.
Davido, as an embodiment of this disorder, cannot stomach the fact that there are people who don't like him or don't necessarily fuck with him - to him, how is that possible? This is why he wants to be the knight posturing as someone's savior publicly even though he intends to ghost them (Madrina), buys the loyalty of presumed internet popular nuisances just to feed that disorder - like a kleptomaniac would.
It is a deep seated insecurity that predisposes him to eventual disrespect. In reality, he doesn't even rate himself. He doesn't enjoy who he is or what he has, unless he has to smash it in someone's face.
The disrespect he's getting, he actually deserves - because the very reason he associated with those nuisances in the first place was to use them as internet weapons in his media fights.
It is also poetically hilarious that my analogy for this tweet is the psychology of kleptomaniacs because he's also a thief, too.
Long may the disrespect continue.
