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I write about Relationships, Frame and Social Dynamics.

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Most men lose women for one reason. They lose themselves first. Frame is not confidence or money. Frame is sovereignty. I write about power, attraction, and social dynamics without moral fluff. substack.com/@ojframe?r=1ok…
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This gotta be the shortest discussion ever.
Marriage is a failed institution. Should you do it? Probably not. I believe every woman that is in a long term relationship wants marriage. If you have a girlfriend. This is unavoidable.
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Every man has an ancient calling that he cannot explain.
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Never say I love you first.
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Here's what I believe: 1. Your dating odds increase exponentially when you stop trying to be better than Chad. Differentiation is the name of the game. And Differentiation is not about being BETTER than Chad, its about being DIFFERENT! Compete on your Strengths not Weakness!
Attraction in the early 2000s used to be canned lines, routines and negs. Today everybody is firmly convinced that the only way to win is to become Chad. The 80/20 chart and genuine desire wen't mainstream and everyone is now competing on the Looks, Money, Status vertical.
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It is not a failed institution, only a misunderstood one.. Marriage is the relationship between the Alpha and beta God and Man Man and woman Woman and child Humans and Animals The distortion is born from inversion as a result of the propaganda of equal rights..
Marriage is a failed institution. Should you do it? Probably not. I believe every woman that is in a long term relationship wants marriage. If you have a girlfriend. This is unavoidable.
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Marriage is a failed institution. Should you do it? Probably not. I believe every woman that is in a long term relationship wants marriage. If you have a girlfriend. This is unavoidable.
Enough time has passed. Time to discuss my opinion on marriage.
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Nothing stops a girl that has chosen to self-destruct.
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Enough time has passed. Time to discuss my opinion on marriage.
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A married man fucking your babe has nothing to do with him and everything do with her. Now you fucking a married woman has nothing do with her and everything do with you. It’s a tribe vs tribe world.
I can't even argue this. I used to kick against men fvcking people's wives but married men will not hesitate to fvck your babe because their wives are weaponizing sex. Its a dog eat dog world after all.
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Protecting her means you stand up for her when necessary. Mate-guarding her means constantly monitoring her. One is about her well-being. The other is about your insecurity.
Replying to @onchartss
Protect your woman. Don’t mate guard her. There’s a difference
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A frame is powerful when it expands your freedom of action instead of narrowing it.
What is a line? A line is a verbal expression used within an interaction. What is a frame? A frame is the interpretation through which you understand an interaction.
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This is why I always tell guys learning to approach women, PAY ATTENTION Who is the girl in front of you? What do you see about her? What thoughts and feelings does she evoke in you? It's remarkable how hard this is for so many guys. But it's the key to becoming a great seducer.
I have always been attracted to men who described me—they'd remark on the way I held my hands, sipped a drink, held my gaze. They'd admire the way my hair framed my face. They'd notice if one of my shoes were scuffed or if gold or silver looked better on my skin tone. They'd remember the things I said and quote them back to me. The things they noticed weren't always complimentary, but it told me that I was an object worth paying attention to. It was more alluring than any kind of trick or impressive display or dating strategy than I've ever seen anyone talk about.
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The whole premise of making so much money, hitting the gym, dressing well in order for you to fuck a lot of women is wrong. Don’t do it for them. Do it for you.
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In plain English?? "DON'T GATEKEEP TOTO"
Whatever you do. Do not mate guard your woman. Resist the urge to do it. I will not explain why.
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imagine in the 1600s riding three days to see her and there’s another horse outside.
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Frame Analysis @jollygoodlyfe
As a man what do you learn from this video 😂🤷🏾‍♂️
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Whatever you do. Do not mate guard your woman. Resist the urge to do it. I will not explain why.
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LMAO. Exactly what @theojframe talked about one time. Most times it's not about game, indeed. 😂
You go dey crack joke, she go dey burst laugh Later you go come dey advice your niggas sey women like guy wey dey crack jokes Until e dem try am and the babe tell them 'ewww'
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Fuck No Nut November. Which one are you having in bed this week? I got myself an apple.
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A strong frame has three things. Stable internal reference point, accurate external read and behavioural freedom. Last one is crucial.
What is a line? A line is a verbal expression used within an interaction. What is a frame? A frame is the interpretation through which you understand an interaction.
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