sabi boy • living • product design • seit 92
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same timeline btw. my friend had to find me a therapist. the indescribable pain, the tears, the hurt. hmm… will never tolerate casual cruelty again.
Chai! 2020/2021 I almost died from heartbreak. I remember calling my friend in the middle of the night in tears and he sent an uber to pick me up and I cried all the way to his house that he had to involve a therapist. I was in so much pain
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tobi retweeted
Also just to add, your partner also has to rate you/respect you as a person.
Idk how to explain it but they have to think you’re an objectively “cool” person on some level, separate from whatever feelings/attraction they have towards you.
tobi retweeted
I think people don't like to admit that it takes effort and a conscious choice to be kind because that means they can do it too.
If they believe you're naturally that way then they can feel better about not making the same choice
tobi retweeted
claro que el amor es político
imagínate estar con alguien sin conciencia de clase que cree que la pobreza es un castigo por no esforzarse lo suficiente
