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tobi

@tobilisic

sabi boy • living • product design • seit 92

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Joined October 2010
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tobi@oluwatobiexe4h
i legit felt like my life was being pulled out of my body. with all my 10 kobo “self awareness” lmao
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if you can make me feel as emotionally safe as I do with my siblings, automatic pass
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Lex@onlylex01Nov 14
Romantic love ain’t enough. Your partner actually liking you as a friend is important too
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Also just to add, your partner also has to rate you/respect you as a person. Idk how to explain it but they have to think you’re an objectively “cool” person on some level, separate from whatever feelings/attraction they have towards you.
Lex (@onlylex01) profile pictureLex@onlylex01Nov 14
Romantic love ain’t enough. Your partner actually liking you as a friend is important too
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I remember being so terrified about putting my art on social media. Scared of making a business out of it. Scared of starting studies, scared of everything. I’m such a scaredy-cat. 🤣 But I’m growing out of being a scaredy-cat. Little by little.
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I was initially scared to do all the things that have brought me to where I am today.
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I think people don't like to admit that it takes effort and a conscious choice to be kind because that means they can do it too. If they believe you're naturally that way then they can feel better about not making the same choice
ju ju ☆ (@YungHotEboKnee) profile pictureju ju ☆
@YungHotEboKneeNov 14
When you’re a kind person people act like it just comes naturally to you like HUH?? It takes effort to choose kindness consistently, especially in the world we live in but it’s important to me so I try my best every day idk
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Tener una relación romántica también es respetar los horarios de trabajo, estudio, tiempo para amigos, familia y para uno mismo. Es tener la madurez suficiente para elegir amar con todo tu corazón a esa persona y de igual forma dejarla ser.
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s@justagrrrNov 14
it is so fun to text a friend every thought u have like it is so fun to have a friend
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Love is a humiliation ritual.
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@kaziyamungu_Nov 13
#TB It's why I've not gone near love in years. 🙂
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Image from ✨️Oluchukwu✨️ (@kaziyamungu_)
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claro que el amor es político imagínate estar con alguien sin conciencia de clase que cree que la pobreza es un castigo por no esforzarse lo suficiente
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Jo.@nanakosuaglobal15h
— yes, in an essay.
princess * ๑♡՞ (@sadbutsexiii) profile pictureprincess * ๑♡՞@sadbutsexiiiNov 11
i need to know exactly how u feel about me in extreme detail
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I love affection and I love being poured into. Life is so short.
princess * ๑♡՞ (@sadbutsexiii) profile pictureprincess * ๑♡՞@sadbutsexiiiNov 11
i need to know exactly how u feel about me in extreme detail
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@_iamhabeebNov 14
Progress that I can see. Joy that I can bask in. Love that I can melt in & Money that I can freely spend.
Nattie (@nattiesworldd) profile pictureNattie
@nattiesworlddNov 14
If you don't mind sharing, what is your wish for the remainder of the year?
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Idk I actually think it’s really cool to care a lot, to send the long message, remember people’s birthday & ask if they got home safe. I will never be nonchalant and I’m glad to be honest I want people to know how much they mean to me during our short time on planet earth.
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And confessing your feelings to someone shouldn't be a demand to be loved back or be immediately understood. Please anticipate the fact that not everyone will make your wishes come true, even if you're close with them. HUMILITY is one of the biggest virtues besides patience.
Pansexual Abrams (@MenLuvr1738) profile picturePansexual Abrams@MenLuvr1738Nov 13
"Never confess your feelings you'll just shoot yourself in the foot" the entire point of love is being open and vulnerable. You have to be ready to take rejection like a normal human being. There is no love without vulnerability. Take the hurt and grow as a person from it.
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𝜗℘@lacedliNov 14
i really did embarrass myself in pursuit of human connection but i could never be ashamed of it because i loved so deeply and beautifully
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Lex@onlylex01Nov 14
Ending up in therapy bc u loved someone is crazy
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IF YOU’RE ALIVE THEN ACT ALIVE. I mean what the hell. fall in love with something. get carried away. give yourself a reason to be absolutely exhausted by the end of the day and still wish you had a few more hours. this is your life. get your hands dirty
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I gotta admit gang, I miss being in love with someone who feels like a best friend and makes me feel so sure & secure that affection, intimacy, & vulnerability feels easy.
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