everybody be in everybody’s comments, but somehow it’s always a problem when I do it? make it make sense
Earth Angel retweeted
I think there's something interesting abt how we treat compatibility as a passive alternative to effort, when so much of what makes ppl compatible is socially produced. Our expectations around intimacy, conflict, gender roles, etc. are learned. Sometimes what feels like incompatibility is two ppl reproducing norms they haven't questioned.
i’ve turned into an “oh, he looks good” and keep scrolling type of person.
i can appreciate the view without wanting the responsibility of getting to know somebody, maintaining communication, navigating expectations, or figuring out where things are going. i just don’t have the time or desire for all that anymore.

















