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Trying to learn more about different perspectives and find my peace among them.

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If somebody tells you they’re suicidal, don’t immediately make their pain about everyone else. For once, make it about THEM. Ask what hurts. Ask what they need. Ask how you can help them stay safe.
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People imagine being suicidal as crying on the bathroom floor. But Sometimes it’s getting dressed, doing what needs doing and quietly wondering how much longer you can fucking do this.
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Pauline Hanson supporters true to form, engaging in the same “monocultural means including everyone” now doing the same word gymnastics trying to convince us that "primitive" is a compliment. Good lord. So; for the absence of ALL doubt. It isn't. "Primitive" isn't a neutral label, it's a value judgment. It means less than. Aboriginal Australians engineered aquaculture systems (Budj Bim) older than the pyramids, developed complex astronomy, and managed this continent's ecology for 65,000+ years — using knowledge systems suited to this land, not a lesser versions of someone else's.
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Replying to @ragefighthouse
You can just be. Be a safe space, provide security & connection. Those are valuable.
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Good Morning! ☀️😊☕️💡
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Until it's done, tell no one.
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As a psychiatrist, I believe our field needs to confronts the iatrogenic harm we too often perpetuate through overprescription, coercive practices, and our over-reliance on antiquated diagnostic frameworks. Healing begins when we stop confusing control with care, and when we reimagine psychiatry as a space that restores agency, honors lived experience, and earns trust.
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Also be open to the possibility that your own thoughts about yourself are more harshly critical than other people's thoughts about you!💗❤️‍🩹
not on twitter frog-gie 🐸
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You will know when someone is genuinely sorry for damage they’ve done to you, when their apology is not tied to reconciliation, but a genuine desire for whatever outcome is best.
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researcher: does this person have the disease psychiatrist: yes patient: i'm fine psychiatrist: that's a symptom researcher: do the intervention psychiatrist: ok patient: please no researcher: did it help psychiatrist: yes patient: nnngrh
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Your primary attachment relationship should be a safe person. If it’s not, that disrupts your whole foundation of safety & security.
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No one tells you about the risk of akathisia when starting a medication. If you haven’t heard the word, you should ask yourself why you haven’t. No one tells you there are over 500 akathisia causing medications.
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💜 And not forgetting dissociation. 💜 #braininjury #cptsd #childabuse #dissociation
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I don’t care how accurate your diagnosis is, I caution pretty much everybody against adopting a fixed condition-focused identity. Even people with severe mental illness can grow and transform in spectacular ways.
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Grateful to @RANZCP for giving me the opportunity to lecture to 400 psychiatrists (with more getting the video version) about deprescribing along with Prof Taylor. And the Wilson Foundation for providing 200 copies of the Maudsley Deprescribing Guidelines.
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My position is that instead of trying to reinvent PTSD into subtypes based on cause (criterion A), it is better we focus our efforts back to understanding the developmental effects trauma can have on personality and behavior throughout the lifespan.
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Feeling everything all at once isn’t weakness - it’s a nervous system wired for survival. Yes, it’s intense. Yes, it’s exhausting. But within that depth is a capacity for insight, empathy, and love most will never touch. 💙 #BPD #MentalHealthMatters #YouAreNotAlone
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I have a friend who believes #ECT saved his life. I know it completely derailed mine. These statements can both be true because there are 1,000+ possible electrical doses on modern devices and 5 different dosing methods. No two ECT patients have the same ECT experience because there are ZERO dosing consensus standard protocols based on safe dosing limits established by pre-market applications and product development protocols on record with the US FDA (or any other international medical device regulatory body). ECT Providers who boast of recipients whose cognitive function improved (knowing they have done nothing to ensure every patient in community settings receive ECT using the same dosing technique) are akin to irrationally boasting about driving home after drinking alcohol when arriving safely. Their lucky experience does not invalidate those who were permanently maimed by drunk driving or a drunk driver or those whose family members were killed by a drunk driver. To that point, I am a member of a phenomenal team investigating ECT experiences. We just completed the largest international survey ever! More than 1,000 responses detailing ECT experiences of recipients, family members and friends. "The majority (55%-71%) reported either no benefit or a negative outcome on the five measures. The percentages reporting some benefit were: helped the specific problem for which ECT was given-45%; improved mood-41%; generally 'helpful'-41%; improved 'quality of life'-29%; reduced suicidality-33%. Respondents were, unusually, given the option, on four of these measures, to report that the variable had been made worse. The results were: specific problem made worse-37%; worse mood-29%; reduced quality of life-62%; and increased suicidality-19%. The findings were consistent with responses from family and friends. It is striking that nearly half (49%) reported that their quality of life was made 'much worse' (22%) or 'very much worse' (27%) by ECT." -@IJMHN onlinelibrary.wiley.com/doi/… The next time you hear of a successful ECT recipient, congratulate that provider and ask what they're doing to register their artistic interpretation of dosing guidelines with device regulators as consensus standard protocols so every single colleague can replicate the procedure with equally joyful outcomes to boast about and every prospective recipient can avoid the grieving that comes with 'worse' (let alone 'very much worse') quality of life, or even death of a loved one during or soon after the procedure. #Ethics #AuditECT #AskThePatient @Mad_In_America @MITUKteam
Replying to @GeorgeKirov1
When the thousands of people damaged, often permanently, by shock therapy they are dismissed as “rare” and “anecdotal” evidence. When you offer evidence of one undamaged person it is supposed to mean something? @PsychRecovery @MITUKteam @LisaTMSA
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