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having fun and being gay online // 28

Los Angeles, CA
Joined June 2020
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welcome to my page
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now post the rest of the quote
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why’d they cancel it
"The Cloud," a canceled twin-skyscraper concept designed in 2011 for Seoul, South Korea
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i’m the guy working at twitter who’s responsible for making sure the music you’re listening to pauses every time you scroll past a gif on the timeline. i wish i could stop but they’d hurt my family
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odysseus when he gets back to ithaca
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this 👇
This is very selfish of them to me because it creates an inconsistency in Lana’s discography. They should have stayed together out of reverence for Lana.
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palantir gets a lot of hate but it’s not all domestic surveillance and international genocide. they also do things like HIV research (weaponizing it)
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2001 mogging so hard here, which i’m aware is a “water is wet” level observation
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Replying to @tyler02020202
I'm going to be in Los Angeles for a few days. Does anyone know any God fearing men who could take me out? I'm looking to be a wife!
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and lil wayne said: “never met the bitch, but i fucked her like i missed her”
When someone says “I love you” but Dostoevsky said: “I dreamed of you before I ever met you, and when I finally did, it was as if I had known you all my life”
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if i were a democratic senator rn i’d be tweeting things like “men will literally end an entire civilization instead of going to therapy”
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they got sportscenter for genocide over there
Israel’s Channel 13 has set up a countdown clock in anticipation of Trump's deadline to wipe out Iran’s “civilization.”
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smokin on that shit that made alexander great
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trump should just simplify things and tweet that he’ll start bombing iran’s power plants if the stock market doesn’t go up this week
BREAKING: Trump threat to Iran
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i think we can give her a pass for scoring both game of thrones AND westworld
Replying to @LevineJonathan
NYC First Lady Rama Duwaji used the N-word in an X post from 2013 archive.ph/Z2DC4#selection-5…
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unfortunately this is the greatest website there’s ever been
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just thought of a guy - The Mindful Fucker
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the cia used to work so hard to do their regime changes covertly and now the president just announces them on video and posts it on the internet
Trump: Finally, to the great proud people of Iran. I say tonight that the hour of your freedom is at hand. Stay sheltered. Don't leave your home. It's very dangerous outside. Bombs will be dropping everywhere. When we are finished, take over your government. It will be yours to take. This will be probably your only chance for generations. Tor many years you have asked for America's help but you never got it. No president was willing to do what I am willing to do tonight. Now you have a president who is giving you what you want. So let's see how you respond. America is backing you with overwhelming strength and devastating force. Now is the time to seize control of your destiny and to unleash the prosperous and glorious future that is close within your reach.
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telling a girl her pussy needs some looksmaxxing
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what about fostering intimacy with men bryan? what about slobbering on hog?
How to make love this Valentines ❤️ There are a few generations that were never taught how to make love. The kind that deepens pair bonds and strengthens the relationship. Because intimacy is still taboo, porn unfortunately became the teacher. Leaving people without learning and mastering the needed love making skills to create vibrancy. Here are 11 things to keep in mind when fostering intimacy with women. 0. Timing: slow and gentle is the way. Men are ready to go within 2-5 minutes. Women require 18-20 minutes. Start before the 18 min mark and your partner may experience pain. Women need that time to tent, when the uterus is lifting up and back. Without this, the vaginal canal is 3-4 cm shorter which leads to cervical collision/pain. 1. Touch: use slow, purposeful touch. The brain classifies the speed of touch, interpreting movements between 1 and 10 centimeters per second as signals of emotion and connection, with an optimal resonance around 3 cm/s. When touch moves too quickly, the brain registers sensation but not intimacy. When it is slow and deliberate, it is encoded as closeness, safety, and desire, initiating the cascade of biological processes that prepare the body for sexual connection. 2. Vagina wetness: it's going well, but not yet. Vagina wetness does not mean that she’s ready. It means that blood plasma is filtering through the vagina walls due to the vasocongestion. This happens before tenting, when the uterus is lifting up and back and extending the vaginal canal by 3-4 cm.  Wetness means that sex-related processes have started but insertion at this stage is too early and will be painful for her. 3. Nipples: for gentle foreplay. Areola and nipple play is helpful in foreplay as the same nerves are also wired to the clitoris. So by gently stimulating the nipples, you’re also remotely activating the clitoris, commencing the engorgement process. Some women may enjoy increased tension play but many don’t. Best to start gently and be guided by her preferences. 4. Safety: feeling safety is a prerequisite. The brain wants to classify the environment as safe before the body prioritizes sexual arousal. Stress, evaluation, self-consciousness, or performance pressure activate inhibitory pathways that suppress genital blood flow, even if desire is present. The same autonomic system that enables arousal (parasympathetic) is shut down by perceived threat or pressure. 5. Lubrication: plan ahead and have it on hand. A substantial proportion of women prefer or require added lubricant for comfort, even when aroused. Natural lubrication varies widely based on hormones, hydration, stress, medications, cycle phase, and age. Needing lubrication does not mean a lack of attraction, it can be normal physiology. Adequate lubrication reduces friction, micro-tears, inflammation, and pain, all of which directly affect comfort. 6. Rhythm over technique: a smooth, soothing vibe. Consistency and predictability allow the nervous system to remain in an embodied, parasympathetic state. Sudden changes in speed or pressure increase cognitive monitoring and sensory vigilance, which can interrupt arousal. Research on sexual excitation–inhibition shows that stable stimulation supports sustained genital response, while erratic input shifts attention back to evaluation. Rhythm builds trust; novelty is best layered onto safety, not used to replace it. 7. Breath: to set the tone and pace Slow, deep breathing activates vagal pathways that down-regulate sympathetic stress and facilitate genital vasocongestion. Studies show that respiratory slowing increases parasympathetic tone, which is essential for female arousal. When her breath deepens, it often reflects internal relaxation, which is necessary for increased pelvic blood flow. Matching  breathing rhythm can nonverbally reinforce safety and connection. 8. Climax: multiple ways there. Penetration-only orgasms do occur, but they are not the norm. Population estimates: 15-25% of women are able to orgasm through penetration alone. 70-85% of women orgasm through clitoral stimulation (direct or indirect). This includes manual, oral, vibratory, or positional stimulation and is the dominant pathway for female orgasm across cultures and age groups. 5-10% of women orgasm from nipple stimulation alone. Functional MRI studies show nipple stimulation activates genital sensory cortex in many women. 9. Presence: try to lose yourself in the experience. Performance focus activates self-monitoring and evaluative circuits, pulling attention out of sensation and into cognition. Sexual arousal is strongest when attention remains interoceptive rather than outcome-driven. Research on spectatoring shows that monitoring “how am I doing” reliably suppresses arousal, especially in women. Responsiveness keeps the body engaged; choreography pulls it offline. 10. Pain: listen to it as feedback for what to modify. Pain during intimacy most commonly reflects insufficient arousal, muscle guarding, or pacing mismatch, not lack of desire. Clinical research in dyspareunia and vulvovaginal pain shows strong links to autonomic imbalance and pelvic floor tension. Treating pain as feedback improves communication, supports safety and long-term desire.
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