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Fungai Mbofana retweeted
"The modern empowered woman is tired."
Tired from what exactly?
You said you don't need providers.
You said you don't need protection.
You said traditional roles were oppression.
Now suddenly responsibility is oppression?
You wanted equality in opportunity... but not equality in pressure?
Welcome to the real world.
Men have always worked long hours.
Men have always carried financial stress.
Men have always been on without applause.
No one called it exhaustion. They called it adulthood.
You were told you can have it all. Career. Marriage. Kids. Status. Freedom. Luxury. Validation.
And now when it's hard… it's patriarchy again?
No.
You don't get to demand power & then complain about the weight of it.
Empowerment isn't a spa package. It's responsibility.
You broke roles. Fine. But breaking roles means negotiating new ones... not expecting invisible support to magically appear.
Freedom without structure feels heavy. That's not oppression. That's reality.
If you choose ambition, choose the cost too.
Equality was never supposed to make life easier. It was supposed to make it fair.
And fairness means nobody is coming to rescue you.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
Tobi for the sake of "base-level knowledge" , I think you should read this.
When juxtaposing, ensure you compare the subject matter, based of their "base-level" characteristic.
Now, come close let me explain to you in the language you will understand.
At the base-level, a snake is a wide animal that is unwanted in the premises of a living human. The same reaction a snake gets is what a scorpion, a lion or a hyena will get. However, when a goat is in your house or a sheep, they won't get such reaction because of their inate nature - domestic animals.
Put this aside, a snake, is also an unwanted visitor. Combining it's traits as a wild animal and an unwanted visitor - the human reaction will be to flee or harm.
Now compare this with a human being - a man. The worst of our reaction to an unwanted visitor is flee of get rid of such thing, this same reaction is what we give to wild animals.
As a man, Tobi, are you a wild animal?
I hope you can comprehend this.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
Last night she agreed to go on a date with a man she went on dates with before.
When she pulled up he seen his ex and ran after her like a dog. Totally forgot he had a date waiting for him in his house. She ended up leaving after he didn’t come back 40 mins later.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
I’m really glad that i don’t have guys who think or have the mindset that treating your wife like a queen and adoring the ground which she walks upon is simping. And if that’s you people’s definition of simping, then I’ll be a proud simp when I become a husband.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
I notice only Women are getting the treatment of “innocent until proven guilty” where as Men in this country automatically get the “guilty until proven innocent” treatment.
Weird.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
Has life not taught us the greys? That a different view is not always about right or wrong. Just different. That maybe your arrogance is the problem; your opinions of others leave no room for greys. Can you not see that we can only meet others as deeply as we’ve met ourselves?
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
We’re obsessed with marrying and dating financially stable partners.. forgetting to check mental, emotional and spiritual stability.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
The Modern Science-Health Headline:
There is zero evidence that the intake of water will improve your health or prevent you from dying. Evidence further suggests that water may also serve to introduce other health issues, especially if you have not been trained in its use.
Fungai Mbofana retweeted
The banknote without a signature at the bottom is nothing but a worthless piece of paper.A few strokes of a pen confer on it all its value.The prayer of a poor child of Adam is a feeble thing in itself, but once endorsed by the hand of the Lord Jesus it accomplishes much. —JCRyle
