trying to get better at explaining what this whole thing is about. Also revamped the website etc.
(with deep gratitude for Claude and all the water that was used)
The distribution of attachment strategies in non-clinical populations really shocked me because it's seems so different from the "inner work" community.
(apparently, two-thirds of secure people have insecure features tho)
tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.…
thanks @Thomasdelvasto_
for getting me back on the Dan Brown train. I binge all of his content every 2 months haha.
youtu.be/dHJXSBKYEaw?si=OwD2…
The main learning (for me) was that the priority is to establish attachment security before going into trauma.
Also careful to build self-agency without basic delight in being, which leads to need to be successful.
Delight in being without agency leads to "chill guy that doesn't do anything"