Growing up with financial struggles, in a village or town, with mostly regional-language education shaped my confidence. My school called itself English medium, but hardly anyone taught in English.
My parents worked hard to support me. But I was also taught not to question them or any elder, teacher, police officer, rich person, or city person. I grew up feeling like I should always obey and never speak up.
That followed me into engineering and work. Struggling to express myself, stumbling over words during presentations, sweating, finding it hard to say no. Being the obedient โnice guyโ comes at a cost.
Many people around the world grow up this way, constantly worrying about how others see them, afraid of humiliation or awkwardness, and holding themselves back from taking risks.
Iโm learning to push myself out of my comfort zone, speak up, and stand up for myself. Itโs okay to express your thoughts and clarify what you mean when someone misunderstands you. You donโt have to silently accept their version of you.
Let yourself be awkward while you practise. Trust me, people care far less about your awkward moments than you think. They have their own lives and worries.
Thatโs how you grow and build confidence. With practice, you can communicate more clearly, feel more comfortable during presentations, and perform better at work. You donโt have to keep holding yourself back.
Ask questions. Say no. Make mistakes. Express yourself. Just be mindful of your words and be kind.
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Bob Fife on Danielle Smith telling separatists in the UCP to find another home: "Why didn't she say that at the beginning? This is somebody who has fed them, nurtured them and accommodated them, and now they're coming for her."
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Bullshit alert. Palestinians in the West Bank and Gaza should be voting in Palestinian elections. But the Palestinian Authority has refused to hold elections since 2006. And the Hamas terrorists in Gaza haven't held elections since seizing power in 2007.
This is the classic deception of so many Palestinian activists: blame Israel while pretending Palestinians have no agency or responsibility for their own future.
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I'm old fashioned but I don't think journalists should be telling people ("joking") to go kill themselves
real talk @BradMBradford, you ran a hell of a race. itโs prob hard to not have really dark thoughts but please know you are alone and you should give into them
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Total wipeout at Acute Care Alberta. 8 senior leaders turfed. Unsure what the @UCPCaucus plan B is at this junctureโฆ itโs not strategic to drop this much institutional knowledge all at once. #ableg #abpoli #Alberta @TheBreakdownAB @PfParks @RealTalkRJ @albertaNDP
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Franceโs youth are outnumbered. Their protests are testing who gets heard ctvnews.ca/world/article/fraโฆ
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cbc.ca/news/canada/calgary/aโฆ @markusoff breaks down the referendum by all 87 Alberta ridings.
Wisdom is not her strong suitโฆ
Breakenridge: Premier would be wise to not ignore rebuke of her party's intentions calgaryherald.com/opinion/coโฆ
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I have met several famous people who were quite humble. Stan Lee was absolutely terrific and I had the opportunity to have a brief lunch with him many years ago when he was not widely famous, as he is now. Linda Hamilton was kind and gracious. Jenette Goldstein was awesome and fun and friendly.
In fact, I think most who I have met are. I think that,maybe, once you are secure in your fame you begin to open up and express gratitude for it. At least that is my theory.
Nonetheless, one who in particular comes to mind is Sigourney Weaver.
Everyone knows who Sigourney Weaver is. She is a legend and deservedly so. Her characterization of Ellen Ripley changed cinema and, particularly, the role of female protagonists. After Ripley, women could be credible action heroes in their own right.
Anyway, a few years back Aliens celebrated the 30th Anniversary of its release. As part of that celebration the local Comic Expo here in Calgary managed to assemble the entire main cast of the film, all together in one place at one time for the first time since the filmโs premiere 30 years before! That was quite the coup.
Of course, the highlight of the event and the biggest star there was Sigourney Weaver. She arrived on Saturday afternoon and had the huge, sold out, Aliens panel that night. She was warm and gracious and rather self-effacing on stage and was utterly engaged in what the audience said to her. She seemed honestly interested to hear whatever people chose to share with her and I donโt think you can really fake that. Although George Burns once famously quipped, โActing is all about honesty. If you can fake that you got it made.โ
Now, the next day, Sunday is where she truly shone and set herself apart from maybe most celebrities. Having only come in on Saturday for the panel, Sigourney was contracted to take pics and sign autographs on Sunday. Hundreds and hundreds of people (or more) ended up lining up to meet her and she was booked for another panel later in the day. With that kind of time pressure I have seen many (most really) celebrities simply do what they can then abandon the line when they have to head to their next engagement. That is the nature of the beast at Cons. It happens.
But then Sigourney made her legend by slaying such beasts and did so here, too. She told her management that she wasnโt going anywhere until absolutely every person who would care to meet her, shake her hand and take a picture had had their time, no matter how long that took. She told her manager that she was there for the fans, not the other way around.
So, one by one, graciously, Sigourney met with and interacted with each of what was probably thousands of us lined up to meet her, say hi, and shake her hand. Even at a few seconds to maybe half a minute each this was a monumental undertaking. She was focussed but unrushed, taking time especially with her handicapped fans to have a moment with them.
The end result was she ended up being something like 90 minutes or more late for her panel that afternoon. Usually this would have been just cause for animosity or outright anger but given what she had been doing and the fact that the crowd waiting were informed of what she was doing when she walked in the room erupted with pure love and respect, even adulation, for the depth of character she displayed. Sigourney was obviously touched and given who she is, stayed late at that panel for exactly the same reason.
So, yeah, Sigourney Weaver is a legend and deservedly so. The utter class and sheer character she demonstrated should serve as an example to the rest of us who may feel that we are too busy or too important or too entitled to give a shit. She showed that you are never too busy or too famous to care.
I love Sigourney Weaver!
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SCOOP: The RCMP is investigating fraud, breach of trust, and money laundering in connection with Alberta's health care procurement controversy, according to a letter filed in court
theglobeandmail.com/canada/aโฆ w @tom_cardoso
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What is with these people and grammar and punctuation? Is it that hard?
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B.C.โs incoming premier Lorne Doerkson has pledged to make Jewish security a priority, including adopting the IHRA definition of antisemitism and strengthening campus protections. The election also saw three Jewish MLAs elected, two Conservatives and one NDP member.
Read more: thecjn.ca/news/b-c-s-new-preโฆ
Tell me you know nothing about Canadian politics without telling me you know nothing about Canadian politics.
Canada is finally waking up! For the first time in nearly a century, conservatives took the majority in British Columbia. That basically as big of a deal as Democrats taking Texas.
It looks like a growing number of Canadians have reached their absolute limit with the Left's agenda... because British Columbia isn't alone in this.
The city of Toronto posted a PSA meant to showcase the "modern Toronto family," featuring two fat gay guys pushing a stroller down the street. The backlash was so immediate and overwhelming that the city had to disable the comments.
But the real question remains... How soon will Mark Carney try and blame Trump for this one?
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Most Americans don't understand where their fellow Americans are coming from. So, no surprise they don't get where Canadians are coming from.
Canada is finally waking up! For the first time in nearly a century, conservatives took the majority in British Columbia. That basically as big of a deal as Democrats taking Texas.
It looks like a growing number of Canadians have reached their absolute limit with the Left's agenda... because British Columbia isn't alone in this.
The city of Toronto posted a PSA meant to showcase the "modern Toronto family," featuring two fat gay guys pushing a stroller down the street. The backlash was so immediate and overwhelming that the city had to disable the comments.
But the real question remains... How soon will Mark Carney try and blame Trump for this one?
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We don't talk enough about New York's pneumatic tube mail network.
New Yorkโs Pneumatic Tube Mail Network Map
Article: frankedmail.co.uk/pneumatic-โฆ
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Respectfully, I disagree, praying is not enough.
Speak up, step up, and stand with #Torontoโs Jewish community. Now more than ever, we must #StandTogether.


































